Well, I mean we can still talk about books if you want, but we both know what the point of it all is, right?

I’m busy and have a full like, and I am sure you do too, but wouldn’t you like the occasional chance to meet someone with a friendly face, chat about interesting things, and then get a good spanking? I am a poly (married) experienced Dom/Daddy, well versed in kink, and looking for good conversations and great sex.

As for kink, I am a flexible Dom, I want to get to know you and understand your kinks and needs and then adapt my style to what you need. I can be very soft or deeply intense as you need. However if you were to ask my kinks then I would say bondage, impact play, giving tasks/goals, brat taming, CNC, anal, and well so much more. I don't see them as requirements so much as lots of options I am compatible with. If you have a kink I haven't tried, I will almost certainly want to try it with you.

About me: I am 5' 10", weigh more than I like, blue eyes, walk with a cane, and have brown hair that is about half grey (I am hoping to achieve silver fox status sooner rather than later).

I like to read, watch far too much TV, ditto with podcasts, don't game as much as I like. I am an engineer (I design electronics and write software), but have written a novel, occasionally go outside and expose myself to the radioactive ball of gas in the sky. I am liberal, vaccinated, enjoy learning, photography, etc.

Please be emotionally mature, I would prefer someone who is local to the greater Portland, OR area — or at least visits regularly — doesn't ghost, and come in with the idea that we are going to get to know each other and see if we are compatible, and communicate about any differences we might have. In addition to play, I am going to want to see you, and trade pictures to turn each other on, so please be ok with that before you respond

I am going to ask you to verify within the first 48 hours. This is non negotiable. Include your favorite song in your first message.

I sometimes write BDSM erotica, if you look in my profile you will find a pinned post, in case you want some homework. Start off by telling me your favorite color, then lets talk and get to know each other, and see where things go from there...