Hello!

I'm Erica. I'm a femboy who recently moved to Syracuse from a larger city due to a job opportunity that was too good to turn down. While I love this city, it has become really hard to find people into the wild and wacky stuff I'm into. Specifically, I'm a submissive-leaning femboy who loves to play in the kink world. Specific interests include long term chastity play, crossdressing, anal, and generally when a woman uses me as entertainment.

Currently, I'm looking more online for a chastity keyholder dynamic since the 10 or so women I've grown to know simply aren't into chastity play or exploring flexible gender norms. Which, totally fine, but discouraging for the 10th time lol. However if you live in Syracuse and these things are appealing to you, let's chat and see if we can grab a cup of coffee soon!

So for online play, I'd really LOVE the idea of handing over control of my chastity cage. If you aren't familiar with it, it's a fitted steel cage that can be locked onto my cock and balls so that it cannot be removed unless the lock is removed. It keeps me stuck in the soft position and I can't get hard or have an orgasm. Orgasm denial is such a hot concept to me because the longer I am denied, the more horny, desperate, and sexually adventurous I want to become.

It can be really hard to implement this online, but I've found a clever method using a realtor's lockbox (metal lockbox for keys that can have any 4 digit code programmed to it). Here's how to set it up:

1. I set a random combo without looking
2. I send you pictures of the combo
3. You tell me when you can read the combo
4. I delete the photos on my end
5. The keys are dropped inside the box
6. The box is closed and scrambled up, so only you know how to unlock the box.

That's it! Once that happens, you own access to the keys. Oh, and that lockbox is mounted behind a propane tank in my garage so I'm not going to easily guess the combo anytime soon lol. It's awkward, and there are 10,000 possible combinations I'd have to go through to guarantee an unlocked box. Last time I got the keys stuck in the lockbox it took me 12 hours of constant guessing while holding it in my lap watching TV. This will be a LOT more inconvenient lol.

The idea of handing over control to a complete stranger is hot in so many ways. Like... I'm trusting my orgasms with a person who can literally ghost me at any moment with zero motivation to ever unlock me. And honestly, that's kinda hot. That's the only way to surrender complete control over my orgasms to the right person.

If you happen to be in the area, let's meet up for coffee! I can bring a different lockbox with me and I'll let you set the combo to the lockbox while we're getting to know each other ;)

Other things you might enjoy:

• I am a femboy/crossdresser - I've got tons of cute/sexy/femme outfits I'd love to wear and show off for you
• I LOVE anal - A few days denied and I'll be seeking it as a means of pleasure
• I LOVE women's feet. Especially in heels.
• I'm completely willing to eat my cum if that is required to let me out. We can even do a short term play with this.