I am an experienced dominant looking for someone to get to know and see where we can take it. Like actually get to know you. You are going to answer all the same boring ass questions that we have answered a thousand times before. I think knowing each other on all levels makes for the best type of dynamic. Something about actually liking and respecting each other as humans, who knew. I am looking for casual(longer term) to something more serious. Lately I have wanted someone I can work out with, I have been focusing on fitness a lot the last couple of years. I spend quite a lot of time at the gym and having that with my partner would be wonderful, keeping each other accountable on our physical goals. The gym/working out thing would be nice but it is not a must. Definitely need someone that is active and wants to do some physical things like hike or go on walks together. Communication is very important for me and should be for you too, yet it seems so hard to get everything written down.

I am caucasian, mid 30s, 5’10’’ Thick-fit build, think strong as fuck, nice defined arms, chest, and back with a bit of a tummy. What can I say, I like to eat tasty stuff. I have a shaved head and a usually neatly kept beard. I am healthy, clean with good hygiene and STI free with proof. I am 420 friendly but otherwise no drugs and I rarely drink. I am divorced and a father. I have a professional career in construction, with a flexible schedule. I am rough around the edges and cuss too much. Pretty easy going and laid back. Love to make you laugh. Very sarcastic with a dark sense of humor. While I am laid back, I tend to have a dominant personality. I say I am boring but maybe not. Other than work I try to stay active and be outside as much as possible. Unless we have a winter storm and it shuts everything down. I work out 4-6 times a week, try to take my kids hiking/walking at least once a week. Mountain bike a couple times a week. Cook most of my meals. I have been watching a lot of TV the last few months, feel like I am running out of good stuff to watch. I like to camp and fish, not much of a hunter really. I am kind of always looking for new hobbies. But most of all I fucking love spending time with my significant other.. Not just sex and play, though that too. I have a lot of attention to give and genuinely enjoy giving it. I will talk to you all day. I will want to know everything you are doing throughout the day. I won’t demand to know or interrogate you about it, I’ll just actually pay attention to everything talking and giving attention. Do you know your love language? If physical touch is not your top or second top, I am not for you. I am extremely physical. I hug and kiss and grab and hold and squeeze and have my hands all over you a lot. I am physically dominant. I also give words of affirmation, almost constantly, and acts of service are big for me too. I guess now is a good time to share about that dominant side of me.

When it comes to being dominant I fall under a few categories, sadistic, primal and Daddy are the main ones. I am respectful, patient, understanding, possessive, controlling and demanding. But in a good way, if that makes sense. I want to build a good dynamic based on communication and trust. This is very important to me, and it should be to you too. I like to play with you. We can be having normal conversation or doing something mundane and I will do something or say something to put you in subspace. Then I’ll go back to normal mundane stuff. I have a lot of kinks, I am open minded and love to explore. Sharing the experience with my sub is what is most important to me. My main kinks include CNC, Dd/lg, bondage, impact play, orgasm control, rope, breeding, leaving marks(Nothing permanent), choking, fucking biting, manhandling, restraining, grabbing hard enough to bruise/mark, hair pulling, teasing relentlessly, and a lot more.

What I am looking for in you, submissive. I do not mind if you are straight or bi. I am non-monogamous, and will elaborate on that when we talk. I would like you to be healthy and hopefully interested in working out together. You have good hygiene and STI free, preferably with proof. I like size difference, so being tiny would be amazing, but ideally you are a bit shorter than I am. I am open to any race or religion, I am not religious, but I am respectful. Being local to DFW Texas and meeting is a must. I do not want an online thing. I hope you have a sassy or bratty side too. Liking the outdoors, cuddling on the couch, cooking together would be awesome too. Value communication and trust, even though I am dominant I want you to express and voice your sides and opinions. I was going to make a separate paragraph for your submissive preferences, but I do not think it's necessary. As long as none of my kinks and likes are deal breakers, I think we will be good. I do have more and would be happy to talk about them.

This feels like it is getting too long. If any of this piques your interests at all, send me a message. Tell me about yourself, I like to read so don’t hold back.