About Me

Hello! I'm interested in meeting someone cool to hopefully develop a solid D/s connection and relationship - a personal one please not a professional one, though I have nothing against sex workers. I tend to be smiley and light hearted and love randomness but I know when to take things seriously too. I feel like I'm pretty decent at adulting haha and I'm overall happy alone but I feel like things would be more fun with a partner who is in charge. I've been typically one to lead and I really enjoy doing so, but also I find myself not super fulfilled. That isn't a cause of any one who has submitted to me, but rather, idk, I just feel more drawn towards submission in multiple ways.

This is me --> https://imgur.com/a/23erPwF

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• Age and Location (or continent, or time zone): I'm 31 and live in Louisville, KY. I have my own home here, but I am not fixed here. I'm open to relocating.
• Interests, hobbies, and passions: I'm pretty into DIY and home improvement whether interior or exterior. I get excited about power tools, hand tools, different technology whether high tech or low tech. I love crafting things with my own hands and seeing a project come together. I'm also into computer tech or smart home things or like home cinema or audio systems. Gardening is something I'm also getting into. Any tips please? I definitely do not have a green thumb. Some grass I've planted has not done too well hahaha.
• Current work or education or projects: Remodelling my bathroom and also redesigning my living room. I really want some nice built in bookshelves -- in the living room, not the bathroom, though maybe the latter would be suitable too lol. Also, I love always learning something new. Recently I've been splitting my attention between technology in different TVs as well as garden hose connections and sprinklers etc.
• Height, weight, body type information: 5'8" 250lbs, broad chested and muscularly but I cannot deny I have some chubbiness too lol. I am finding more and more small ways to remind myself to eat less and overall healthier since, when people ask me if I exercise, I'm tired of thinking to myself no I just am naturally physical looking but I eat too many nachos in reality lol and that adds to the bulk.

My Ideal Domme

I really look for a partner in general who also enjoys being humorous and fun. I looooooove being teased a lot whether verbally or physically. I also really appreciate someone who is affectionate and smart and sweet but honestly not too sweet. I find some firmness or bossiness to be very alluring. Also, I feel like I thrive with structure in a relationship. I'm happy for you to say what you want or how or when or where so that I can focus on pleasing you the best I can! But also, I am very open to discipline as you see fit if you think I can improve on anything. I really want to be a good submissive for you please. Oh ya, I am also open to any gender. Though I'm not really into cis guys. Also, I am comfortable with either a monogamous relationship or if my partner is poly.

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• Age range (upper and lower): I'm really not selective actually. I'm open to all ages. What's important to me is good chemistry.
• Location: I'd prefer someone close since that obviously would be convenient, but also, flights even across the country aren't too terribly expensive if planned ahead. Maybe we can go dutch on the cost?
• Body type / height / weight: Again what is important to me is personality and shared interests, but also I do appreciate if someone takes care of their presentation some regardless of their weight.
• Personality traits: I am a fan of quirky people! Bubbly and positive and fun. If you talk a lot or even nonstop lol that is fine by me. On the flip side, if you are more dark and quiet, I am very happy to be the talkative one or you can tell me to stop pestering you lol because I am also comfortable enjoying each other's company even during moments of silence too. Alsooooo, again I really really like affection please.
• Physical traits: I don't really have any specifics here? Like, I can be attracted to any feature just depending. I don't really have a preference for large breasts or small breasts etc lol. I am the type that will happily worship all of you please.
• Preferred domme style(s): Regardless of your experience level, I need someone who will try their best to be creative in exercising control. I really love pleasing and serving and caring and supporting and giving my all, but I also want to feel cared for and thrilled and also made to feel very well used but supported and guided too. So, it is important to me that someone openly expresses and communicates their desires and needs and feelings and how I can improve the quality of their life but also implements control in a fun and encouraging way.

Next Steps

• How to contact: I am comfortable texting or I have snapchat that I seldom use, but I first would like talking through here for awhile as we initially get to know each other.
• Verification requirements: Eventually I would like to talk on the phone with you or face time. Being catfished does not feel good....
• Likely response time: I'm usually always at my computer so I will reply asap and definitely you will be a priority for me.