Even after a decade of experience in D/s relationships I find that the thing I enjoy most about is when I meet people who are still evolving and eagerly learning. I am no “expert” nor someone who’s whole identity is wrapped up in BDSM, so what really does it for me is the continual exploration with like minded folks. If you have any level of BDSM experience or none at all, but are looking to meet someone kind and fun to do some exploring with - we might get along just great!

A bit more about me:

I’m 35 years old, 6’1”, 180 lbs - height/weight proportionate, 7” uncut thick. Fully vaccinated and up-to-date on my testing. I'm a pretty experienced Service Dom who values consent and aftercare. I enjoy passionate and sensual experiences, and genuinely get pleasure from putting your satisfaction first. I live in the Ravenswood/Lincoln Square area and can host.

What I’m looking for:

These are just some examples of things I’ve enjoyed in the past and have experience with. Maybe you’re into some and not other, and maybe I don’t have your curiosity listed at all.

• Eating you out for hours.
• Edging, teasing, forced orgasm, orgasm denial.
• Rope bondage, restraints, sensory deprivation.
• Impact play - spanking, slapping, and rough manhandling.
• Hair pulling, nipple torture, and using toys to push your limits.
• Anal sex and double penetration.
• Face fucking.
• Degradation, humiliation/verbal abuse and/or praise kinks.
• Group sex in all its many forms.

Who you are:

I’m not putting any limits here, other than you being a vaccinated and recently tested, lady-identifying or non-binary person, who is open minded and eager. I’m super into queer/switchy folks as well and get along great with folks who, like me, are also sex/body/kink positive.

Sounds like you, doesn't it? Send me a message with a little about yourself and let’s see if we’re a good match.

Thanks in advance!