TLDR: I'm single, 29, and looking to connect with someone local both physically and emotionally, without the pressure of trying to form a full time relationship.

It seems these days with the mess that is dating apps, it's very difficult to actually connect with people. It's impossible not to be lost in amongst the sea of other guys, because a few pictures and a tiny bio can never really relay who you are. Trying to stand out there is an effort in futility, so I'm turning to Reddit as I've had a small amount of success here previously.

For a long time I was only searching for a committed long term relationship, dismissing the idea of FWB as something for people other than myself. In the last year or so however, I've begun to explore more the idea of a less pressured connection, and I've discovered that it's absolutely possible to be close and romantic with someone without it having to be something as serious as a LTR.

I'd like to find someone sex-positive around my age, who I can also just hang out with, cuddle with, and generally just enjoy their company. I don't wanna give too much away in case someone I know recognises me from them, but my interests include metal music, climbing, and I'm pretty nerdy. We can always work out what we've got in common as time goes on. Physically, I definitely have a preference for slimmer women, I'm quite lean myself. I'm 5'9", but I don't mind height differences either way.

I'm very big on completely open and honest communication, and more than happy to take things at your pace. I can host (not directly in Cambs but nearby), and there are (very nsfw) pics of me on my page if you're curious. I'm empathetic, intelligent, and comfortable in who I am (that all sounds a little arrogant to say but I've gotta sell myself right?)

If that wall of text wasn't off-putting, and you're interested in maybe getting to know each other, my DMs are open for an ASL. If you've not got any pictures on your profile please include one in your message.

Looking forward to hearing from you!