Hello

I'm Alexander from the UK (but born in southern Europe), a quite experienced 33 years old Dom. I am looking for the other half of a dynamic that I dream and hope for. I prefer online, at least for the start and until trust develops.

Some vanilla info about me: I am quite a bookworm and love acquiring knowledge from multiple and diverse fields. I studied psychology and did a master's in politics and history of religions. So yeah, intellectual conversations are quite a turn on, and I really love learning and also guiding/teaching someone else. My hobbies include going to theatre plays and musicals, experiencing live gigs by amateur bands (you can feel their love of music regardless of their talent) and playing sports. Occasionally I am also gaming as I really consider gaming as another art form that can inspire and teach us and that is quite misunderstood by society.

I will not disclose much about my kink side, I prefer this to be disclosed and developed through conversation. I am quite experienced as I wrote above, and that means quite flexible and confident about what I want. I am looking for a sub who truly wants to learn and who is honest and committed in developing a mental connection with me. I have a lot of likes, and I pretty much tried everything apart from my limits. For me the most important is communication and compromise when it is needed. I have a very sadistic and strict side as well as a nurturing and caring side depending on the sub and the communication and understanding we both have. Limits are of course anything that is permanent, scat, family, blood and no social suicide or exposure.

Safeword and aftercare are a must for me, and I write it down only because I spoke with a lot of subs who disregarded that.

Lastly, I will leave you with a poem by Henry Lawson which describes perfectly the dynamic for me. If feel like the poem, then I believe we have a good chance of comparability.

"Oh, my ways are strange ways and new ways and old ways,

And deep ways and steep ways and high ways and low,

I'm at home and at ease on a track that I know not,

And restless and lost on a road that I know."