I am an experienced Dominant, seeking a submissive partner. I'm kinky, adventurous, intelligent, thoughtful, and deviant. I also believe that lust and love are two different things. That some sexual desires/needs you're just... born with, and some are created. A mixture of nurture AND nature. If you're someone like me? Or maybe it's just me. Either way, that's the situation I'm in and I'm looking for a partner who's comfortable slotting into that role in my life. I would prefer something long-term and lasting.

I've started with things I'm not looking for, so here's a list of things I am looking for from the submissive side of my prospective partner. Eager. Communicative. Engaged(Conversationally, etc). Submissive. Understands that being submissive isn't a complete personality in and of itself. Honest. intelligent and eager to learn. Eager to be taught and trained. The thought of that makes your body throb. Makes your brain fuzzy. Makes your lips open slightly and a hungry look come on to your face. Or maybe it's just electricity that goes up and down your nerves as you think about it being done to you. I'm not picky when it comes to that reaction, as long as it's there.

Sexy stuff? I've tried quite a bit. I've been involved in D/s relationships for over a decade and I've never been afraid of trying something new if it was interesting. There's lots of things I enjoy, so here's some thoughts that made me hard the last 7 days: Cock worship. Mind-break. Orgasm denial. Collars. Plugs. OTK Spankings.

All of that is very heavily focused on the sexual side. I'm also looking for something akin to relationship. I like having a relationship with my submissive. Having opinions doesn't make you a "brat". I like chatting throughout the day, talking about whatever strikes either of our fancy. Someone I can be honest and open with, and can offer the same to. I have a very high paced and stressful job. I have an excellent career. I am driven, motivated, and intelligent. I own a home, a car, no kids, I'm doing quite well for myself. Come be the missing piece.

And if you aren't the missing piece, but this post made you curious, feel free to reach out. Happy to have some conversations and abate any curiosity.

And if you don't match what I'm looking for, no need to be offended. I'm not just looking for anyone, I'm looking for a specific fit for my situation. It's not personal. Not at all!