Hi all! 28F looking for a D/s relationship that will hopefully grow into something long term. I’m looking for someone local to the NYC area who is interested in maintaining an IRL connection. Please be within the city and 27-38 years old

Sorry this has be added at the top but: if you send me something sexually explicit, a one word intro, and/or clearly didn’t read/aren’t looking for the same thing in the first message I will ignore your message lol please read and make sure you think we’re a good match before messaging. Thanks! :)

As a person I start out a little shy but become much more open and chatty once we get to know each other. Im a little more of a home body than a hard core partier but I enjoy getting out and trying new things; I’m just as comfortable at a museum as a bonfire. I’m bisexual, college educated, and left/liberal leaning, I tend to have strong opinions on things but I usually know when it’s appropriate to keep them to myself. I like to craft (crochet, color, draw/paint, write, etc), I enjoy reading (mostly sci-Fi and fantasy with the occasional thriller), and play DnD regularly. I have a few houseplants I love and obsess over as well a couple terrariums I’m fighting to keep alive. I like to cook (I’m a vegetarian), I can make chocolate chip cookies and bread from scratch. My guilty pleasure is trashy reality TV (think like 90 Day Fiancé, not Meet the Kardashians).

Physically I’m white, short (5’), chubby with big tits. I have medium length curly/wavy brown hair and hazel green eyes. My style is business casual at its best, and randomized sim at its worst. I wear a lot of dresses, high waisted jeans, crop tops, etc but I love an opportunity/excuse to break out my corsets and fun pieces.

Kink wise I’ve been exploring for a few years. Some of my favorites include outfit control (including collars/chokers/leash/lingerie), orgasm control, choking, hair pulling, rules/punishments, training, spanking/light pain, bondage/restraints, name calling, free use, discreet public play, etc. that’s by no means an exhaustive list and I’m pretty open to trying things generally.

I know my post is on the longer side so if you made it this far thanks for reading! Hopefully I’ve piqued your interest. If you’re interested in chatting, send me a chat with a little intro about yourself and what caught your eye about my post! If not, good luck and have a nice day :)