Hello and welcome to my ad. Leave your clothes at the door, come in and have a seat.

I am a 32 year old Male Dominant. I am white, 6'4”, on the lean side with short brown hair and brown eyes. I wear glasses, and am on the attractive side of nerdy. I remain active with rowing, with some walking and cycling in the summer and the occasional hike, but I also enjoy staying home to play a game (video game or board game) or work on a wood working project. Ideally, we share an interest in gaming.

In BDSM, I have a little over 10 years of experience off and on (not continuous) and through that time I have learned what I enjoy, and what I do not. I have a variety of experience I am happy to discuss once we start talking, but it is less applicable here since this time around I want to train someone more to my tastes for a long lasting relationship.

Primarily, my style is a Soft Dom. I enjoy the more mental aspects of domination in the forms of orgasm control, daily tasks, Mentorship, and wardrobe control. I am aware that this tends to make me more attractive to Little-type submissives. I am not opposed to one, however, know that I will not be called Daddy, and I will not engage in age regression. Other adorableness and cuddling with stuffed animals is fine.

On that note, I'll list my requirements. First, you must be a female and female since birth. You must be 18 , though I would vastly prefer someone in the age range of 22-32, with some wiggle room. You must be drug and disease free (pot is acceptable but I will not participate in it). And lastly, you must not be overweight. Nothing against a BBW, but I am not attracted to them. A few extra pounds is alright, though I would prefer a submissive that is on the petite and short side (little bit of a manhandling interest for a scene). Physicality is a must so I am looking for someone local-ish. I can host, and am willing to travel to pick up my submissive if necessary as far North as Fort Collins and as far south as Colorado Springs, maybe a little further.

I am looking to train my submissive in a more positive oriented relationship. I plan to build a structure around rewards and encouragement, not constant punishment. I want to help my future submissive grow and flourish into the woman she aspires to be, while also training her to be the best sub for myself. I am interested in training/encouraging physical affection, wardrobe control (typically related to when we go out or when you are in my house instead of all the time, but open to it), orgasm control, and some daily tasks or fun as well as encouraging my sub to be a little flirty or a tease. It goes without saying that if you already enjoy these activities, it's a bonus. I would be willing to discuss details of a TPE/live in situation but that would be far down the road if at all.

Huge bonus points if you speak Japanese. I try to visit Japan once a year, and am in need of people to practice the language with.

Outside of Kink, I am looking to share some romanticism with my submissive. Dinner dates, going out to live theater (I love musicals myself), and going on short hiking trips or camping trips are on a list of things I enjoy. At the very least, I would like something we can bond over that stretches beyond kink, so someone who plays video games or board games is highly preferred.

That's it for now, I am happy to discuss more in Reddit Chat or through Reddit messages to start and then we can move to a better platform. I hope to hear from my future submissive soon!