Hello!! :3

A bit about me: I'm 19 years old. AMAB, but very feminine, and I consider myself non-binary (I suppose you could call me a femboy if you wanted :>). My name is Stephen, but friends like to call me Gerbil. I'm a very empathetic, kind, and personal kind of person - not introverted, but definitely reserved - yet once I know somebody I can also be an annoying quirky crackhead who laughs at literally anything (but still makes sure not to cross a line). I'm just under 6 foot, and a slim-average build. I like reading and writing, fashion, games, creative projects, programming and animals!

My kink background: I've been learning and practicing bondage for over a year now - I'm experienced at tying all sorts of things; futomomo, takatekote, hogties, if you can name it I can probably tie it. (While I'm at it, other kinks are: gags, blindfolds, sensory deprivation, domination and submission, other types of bondage, light torture and tickle play, degradation and consensual non-consent/abduction play. I would enjoy switching for all of these.)

I'm looking for: I'm looking for opportunities to tie someone, both to build more experience and improve my skills, and to expand my comfort zone and have a bit of fun. That's the main thing I'm looking for - so really, the rest is up to you! I'm up for pretty much whatever connection - whether it's NSA, friends with benefits/play partners, or if we get closer, something more. I'm willing to indulge in other kinks as long as they don't violate my limits below. For what it's worth, I would also be interested in teaching people to tie - even if that's all you want. Men, please do not message me. Due to the natural connotations that come with BDSM play, I'm only interested in playing with women and maybe other non-binary people.

Limits: (Do not ask if I will reconsider any of these. The answer is no.) - Ageplay, anything illegal, anything involving children or animals, anything involving yucky fluids like urine or blood, anything extremely dangerous or intense, and anything public.

Safety is my utmost priority for myself and anyone who chooses to play with me, to ensure total comfort. If you do not agree with the BDSM principles of safe, sane and consensual, please do not interact with me, or anyone in the community for that matter.I would highly recommend (not just with me, but for any meetups like this with someone you do not yet trust) that you make sure someone knows where you are and regularly checks in on you, is available to come and get you in an emergency, that you have a plan for if something goes wrong, and that you vet/look into the people you play with.Aftercare is important!!Domming or BDSM are not excuses for someone to harass, abuse, assault or disrespect you!!

Some final details:

• My travel situation is complicated at the moment, so please do not contact me if you are not within a reasonable distance of Cambridgeshire.
• To prove that you at least paid attention to the important parts of this post, let me know your favourite colour when you message, and make sure to tell me a bit about yourself :)
• I will only be able to host under very specific conditions and circumstances, so I'd highly recommend that if you contact me you are either a) able to host b) know somewhere where we can easily and safely host or c) are willing to cooperate on booking a hotel or venue
• Please do not message me if you are any older than 23.