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r/dirtypenpals

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DirtyPenPals is a writing subreddit for people 18+ who are looking to connect with someone through the written word and erotic conversation. Stop by, find a partner, and enjoy!

Moderators

Updated Jun 29, 2023
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Subreddit Rules

Updated Jun 28, 2023
1

Be respectful.

  • Bullying, harassment, shaming, calling out, hate speech, or behaving like a jerk in PMs, posts, or comments will not be tolerated. You can review our harassment policy here.
  • Do not sexualize specific real-world violent events, or specific real-world examples of harm, suffering, or abuse.
  • Any comment which detracts from a poster finding a penpal may be removed at moderator discretion.
2

Only one post is allowed per 8 hours, and the same post only 3 times in 7 days.

  • Accounts must be at least seven days old in order to be able to make a post on /r/dirtypenpals.
  • Limit partner-seeking posts to once every 8 hours.
  • You may post the same prompt no more than 3 times over a 7 day period.
  • Deleted posts still count toward the limits.
  • POST LIMITS APPLY PER USER, NOT PER ACCOUNT. Juggling multiple accounts to cheat the posting limits will result in an immediate ban.
3

Posts must be prefixed with a tag, e.g. [A4B].

  • Partner-seeking posts MUST be prefixed with tags, such as [F4F], [M4A], [TF4F], [NB4M], etc. How tags are used and interpreted are up to user discretion and responsibility. Posts with creative tags such as [Table4Chair] will not be removed, but are not supported though sidebar searches.
  • Meta or Share posts must be prefixed with [Meta] or [Share] tags.
4

Posts must be focused on written exchange.

  • Partner-seeking posts on DirtyPenPals should be primarily focused on equal, two-way exchanges of writing. Posts that focus on other media forms (pictures, videos, video chatting, etc...) will be removed and redirected to other, more appropriate subreddits.
5

Posts must offer detailed content.

  • Posts should have a minimum of 175 words of descriptive content for prospective partners to respond in kind.
  • Posts only asking for content do not fit the theme of the subreddit.
  • There is a minimum requirement for post length. Using filler to make your posts reach the minimum post length is unacceptable.
  • Offers and requests for completed stories, detailed fantasies, secrets, prompts, or any other requests for content are not considered equal exchanges.
6

No underage users, characters, or roles allowed.

  • All users of DirtyPenPals must be at least 18.
  • No arranging of any roles under the age of 18 in any capacity.
  • There must be clear story context that shows all involved characters are adults above the age of 18.
  • No underage settings such as high school, babysitting, or "sleepover" prompts.
  • Disclaimers like “I am 18+ and want to play a fantasy with someone else 18+” are insufficient.
  • Canon underage characters are underage.
  • No underage experiences or backstory.
7

No requesting or offering personal information.

  • No phone numbers, email addresses, actual addresses, identities, kik usernames, or other private information.
  • No mentions of usernames that aren't yours.
8

No images of People, NSFW images, and/or gallery links. No outside subreddits or userpage links.

  • No images of People, real or drawn
  • "Pics in profile" still breaks the rule.
  • Do not offer or request photos of private individuals.
  • Posts may not require pictures in a response.
  • Posts cannot have more than four links or images or use galleries.
  • Do not link to outside subreddits or to your userpage.
9

Posts must be your own original writing. (Please modmail us!)

  • Don’t copy or use someone else’s writing.
  • Do not use ChatGPT or other AI tools to write your post for you.
  • If you find that someone has taken and used your or someone else's content, please modmail us and include all relevant links!
10

No selling or offering money/compensation.

  • All interactions on DirtyPenPals are free. Posts that are offer or request gifts, money, donations, or any other sort of compensation are explicitly not allowed. In addition, advertising for adult websites, chat services, cam shows, adult stores or other similar commercial enterprises are not permitted.
11

Meta posts must be constructive for the community as a whole.

  • Metas are for useful discussions: topics of relevance to most of DirtyPenPals, conversation-based and promotes dialogue, and are constructive rather than destructive.
  • Metas are not for rants, discussing your life story, or to attack/admonish/shame another user or group of users.
  • Metas are not for private communication, looking for lost partners, or to seek attention and exposure.
12

Shared content requires both parties' permission.

  • Both parties of an exchange must give explicit consent to share it. If you would like to share writing that you have done with a partner, please make sure you ask them for permission before posting it, and separately permission if you would like to share their username. Shares do not require a partner's name if they wish to stay anonymous.

Notice: This subreddit is not actively monitored, so the posts here are only a small subset of what exists on reddit.

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to r/dirtypenpals by Jonesq40
1 hour ago
[M4F] successful lawyer at the hotel bar for troublemaker or switch
M4F
to r/dirtypenpals by fam_jamm
2 hours ago
[M4F] Mom comes home drunk and does something inappropriate/obscene in front of/to her son. The next day, she remembers - and regrets - everything...
M4F RP - Ongoing
to r/dirtypenpals by cygnet25
4 hours ago
[M4F] Sea Legs
M4F RP
to r/dirtypenpals by PantaRheiEros
7 hours ago
[M4F] The Student & The Envelope
M4F RP
to r/dirtypenpals by Dennis82HH
2 hours ago
[M4F] In this fantasy world, women get magical powers from blueballing men (Femdom, heavy edging)
M4F
to r/dirtypenpals by scionofbyron
2 hours ago
[M4A] Polyamory and Open Relationships
M4A Conversation
to r/dirtypenpals by fam_jamm
2 hours ago
[M4F] Committing incest to pay the bills
M4F Ongoing RP/Conversation
to r/dirtypenpals by peach-lover69
6 hours ago
[M4F] It’s my first time at the massage parlor and I’m a bit nervous. I’m hoping my mature masseuse can help me feel comfortable.
M4F Ongoing RP/Conversation
to r/dirtypenpals by Lostinspace3655
16 hours ago
[M4F] Post apocalyptic role-play with lots of world building and different opportunities
M4F RP
to r/dirtypenpals by cygnet25
4 hours ago
[M4F] Date Night
M4F RP
to r/dirtypenpals by jnsnmcphrsn
19 hours ago
[M4M] Cousin Intimacy: Bisexual Roleplay
M4M Ongoing RP/Conversation
to r/dirtypenpals by commandsandorders
17 hours ago
[M4F] - Her Face Was Red and She Couldn't Stop
M4F Ongoing RP/Conversation
to r/dirtypenpals by dewschnugget
22 hours ago
[M4F] A Spy/ One Woman Army Story - Operation: “Gag Order”
M4F
to r/dirtypenpals by Lost_The_Plot2
1 day ago
[M4F] Detailed & Literate RP Anyone?
M4F
to r/dirtypenpals by Dennis82HH
2 hours ago
[M4F] World of Pussy worshipping and cum denial (Femdom)
M4F
to r/dirtypenpals by EvilDom33
1 day ago
[M4F] - An Evil Man Needs The Right Cheating Wife.
M4F Conversation
to r/dirtypenpals by Justlooking9696
1 day ago
[M4F] Cult of sex and death.
M4F RP - Ongoing
to r/dirtypenpals by persianfurs
22 hours ago
[M4F] Concerning submission and servitude
M4F
to r/dirtypenpals by cygnet25
4 hours ago
[M4F] Date Night
M4F RP
to r/dirtypenpals by Competitive-Fly1400
12 hours ago
[M4F] Running club
M4F
to r/dirtypenpals by subby-boy-toy
4 hours ago
[M4F] Your phone chimes and your heart skips a beat. "Your package has been delivered"
M4F
to r/dirtypenpals by TheCatboyChronicles
4 hours ago
[M4F] All things anal!
M4F
to r/dirtypenpals by therealdirtypenpal
14 hours ago
[M4F] Stinking cute 🇩🇪🇺🇸 (gross kinks/musk)
M4F Conversation
to r/dirtypenpals by DC-dogmatic
15 hours ago
[M4F] White World Order: New Laws for Women of Color
M4F RP
to r/dirtypenpals by jnsnmcphrsn
19 hours ago
[M4M] Cousin Intimacy: Bisexual Roleplay
M4M Ongoing RP/Conversation