Pathetic guys had a much easier time getting sex in historical times, than they do today. There were trade offs though...

The price of this easy access to sex came with weird drawbacks in history. Better men would see these drawbacks a deal breaker. Guys who have no trouble getting girlfriends today have the dignity not to lower their standards or trade in their morals. They wouldn’t settle for the type of sex history offered.

You are desperate to lose your virginity and willing to put yourself (or a girl) through whatever bad drawbacks history had. Just so you can have undeserved sex with her.

What are some drawbacks that other guys have too much pride to go along with (but you actually enjoy)?: 1) Traditional gender roles: Most men today don’t need women suppressed by society just to get in their pants. They prefer their women free and independent. You are intimidated by such women and find comfort in a society where women willingly follow traditional gender roles. Essentially suppressing themselves. With traditional gender roles women married out of obligation, duty or necessity and plastered on a superficial look of love for their husbands.

2) Sexual repression: Most men today like their women sexually liberated and free. These men are able to pleasure their partners and make sex mutually enjoyable. You are not. You struggle to hold it during even slow missionary sex - like a boy busting to pee. You take comfort in your partner not knowing any better, not knowing she deserves better.

3) Traditions, cultures and customs: You don’t have the confidence to force or command a wife even if you have “authority” over her. You prefer hiding behind excuses and social pressures to get what you want from your wife. Your willing to put up with the customs that don’t benefit you (prayer etc) just so you can pretend to want to follow the ones that do benefit you and get you laid.

What are some drawbacks that other guys have too much pride to go along with (but you endure)?: 1) Religion: Not all religious rules were about getting sex or stopping women getting too smart. Hours of prayer, science being considered witchcraft and having wedding nights witnessed are some unenjoyable examples. Lust was also considered a sin so your character would have to hide his sexual desires behind a facade of religious dedication.

2) Weird historical customs we could exaggerate or make up: While we try to be realistic we can also explore some made up or exaggerated customs. For example perhaps in historical times when you marry the girl you grew up next to (or maybe your sister) your mother wants to ensure this marriage is free of lust/sin. She insists on sitting in on each and every session of coitus you engage in. Maybe she even holds your small cock at the base and mutters prayers while you thrust. Maybe she masterbates you before allowing you a single thrust to finish inside your wife. Despite how gross this is you put up with it.

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