I enjoy going out to eat on Sunday. There are so many women dressed in their Sunday best eating out after church. I have to image that a lot of these women are not as prim-and-proper as their conservative outfit might suggest. Or maybe she wishes she were more prim-and-proper in a weird, perverse, 50s housewife, "red pill women" kind of way.

To flesh out one idea, I see a couple in their 40s, married for about 20 years. She grew up in a strict household. She loves her vanilla husband madly but misses some of the structure that she had in her childhood. She tries to be the good submissive Christian housewife, but he doesn’t take the lead as much as she needs him to. Lately, she’s found some of the kinkier aspects of being in a male-led household. He humors her when she brings it up, despite not even knowing if she should be bringing it up, but he’s not really into it. Now that the kids are at college, and she has the house to herself all day, she’s ready to satisfy some of these desires, with her husband's blessing or not.

This could go a lot of other ways, too. Admittedly, a lot of these ideas have a lot of overlap. Maybe she's dreaming that her husband will drop off the kids after dinner at the grandparents for the afternoon. In her mind, he'll pin her wrists above her head back against the wall as soon as they get in the door and rip open the front of her pretty dress. She wanted to go shopping, anyway.

Another woman is self-conscious about all the little things she didn't quite do right for dear hubby during the week. She wonders if a spanking, corporal punishment, wouldn't do her some good, but she's afraid her husband will just think she's a freak if she suggests it to him.

Maybe it took all the self-control another woman had not to check Reddit DPP during the family-friendly pastor's sermon or during adult Sunday school/Bible study after the main service.

A silver-haired woman is about to become a grandma for the first time. She married her high school sweetheart and has never been with anyone else. Her husband is great but vanilla and routine. Now she sees other men and other couples and wonders what else is out there.

If you're vanilla but with a mental itch to scratch, let's chat.