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M4F - I discovered a girl I have a 2nd date with shares my unusual kink...how should I handle it?
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NerdyCuckJames is a male looking for a female
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So for this, I am looking more for conversation rather than RP, though if we click well and a "practice run" RP makes sense, I'm down.

So here is my situation - I met a girl "Jen" at a book store. I know it's cliche and honestly I don't hit on girls randomly usually but we were looking at the same section and got talking. She seemed flirty so I asked for her number (this was about three weeks ago).

After a bit of texting we moved to snapchat since she said she uses that way more. We chat some and I ask her out. We went on our first date on Wednesday and everything went awesome, ended with a kiss, not too long or intense but definitely passionate.

We set up a second date right then, and have chatted a little since but not too much since obviously since I don't want to look too desperate.

But was bored this afternoon so I tossed her name into twitter and she has an account. The tweets were pretty anodyne, honestly exactly what I'd expect from her. She also doesn't tweet much (Just three times in 2022 actually), but then I clicked over to her likes and it's clear she's more active than her tweets would give the impression of.

Most of the likes weren't really that interesting either - liking things a band she likes posted, liking things from her alma mater...you get the idea.

Until I noticed a BNWO themed tweet she liked. It was not subtle, it was very explicitly pornographic. And as I scrolled through I saw a half dozen spread out among her other likes. Based on when things were tweeted, at least one was liked in the last few weeks.

And your question now, esp. if you look at my post history is probably "Ok...so what? You're into that too?". And yea, this is definitely not a deal breaker for me, if anything it makes her hotter.

But what should I do?

The two most obvious answers are:

1) Ask her directly about it (either via text or on our next date- which is next Tuesday)

2) Don't mention it for a while and see how things play out.

The first seems like a bad idea since it could make her feel trapped or uncomfortable esp. if she didn't realize she was liking them publicly.

The second feels right but maybe it is overly cautious and what if things don't work out for another reason but she would have been into it if we opened up about that?

So what am I looking for from you?

1) Advice - How would you like to be approached by that/how do you think a guy should handle it? While this can be generalized to any kink, given the kinks taboo nature, if this is your kink I'm especially interested in your opinion

2) Alternative ideas to the two I mentioned. I'm sure there is a third way I'm not seeing

3) Trial roleplaying the interaction - this might be helpful but also sounds hot on it's own.

Kinks Raceplay, bnwo, girls into BBC, cock size mattering, breeding, sloppy seconds, light teasing, light sph (from the girls, not the bulls)

Limits Anything illegal, non-con, me having a hostile relationship with the bull(s), asking for pics/social media of the girl,

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