So since I had a huge swing and a miss with my earlier post let me try to get more specific with what I am looking for.

I'm a pleasure dom, I spend a lot of my time taking care of others on the site and Making sure they have a very good experience. I am detailed and try to be engaging and supportive of most kinks I can to provide my partners with the very best time I can provide.

But sometimes, I would like the tables turned. No I don't want to be Domme'd To be frank that usually ends up with me doing things that I would do for my partners when I am domming them Just with the added twist of someone smacking me or degrading me and I just don't find it enjoyable.

Today, I want a sub who knows how to bring their dom back. Someone who knows that it takes energy to put yourself into being someones perfect partner and appreciates the fact that there's work and effort that goes into all of it.

I want a partner who wants to be caring, giving, and if we can get me out of the funk. Be given to. I'm an middle aged Dad bod type Brown hair Blue eyes, Beard. 6'0" Body built for cuddles not Marathons.

Where are my ladies who want to be appreciated for Being so amazingly good at appreciation and Dom aftercare.

Or if someone wants to prove me wrong and prove there are super caring Femdoms out there. I guess Im open there too.

Kinks Well tonight I am looking for oral, Cock worship, body contact. affection, DDLG is a bonus, Or even just someone who wants to chat about the idea.

limits: Gore,vore, beast, Noncon, pegging, underage, Toilet play,
limits for JUST tonight:Degragation/Humliation. I have enough Negative I need some sexy sweet

If you play on Discord even Better :)

Things I always promise my partners.
1. Your pictures, words and time are yours. I'm not looking to do anything to make you unsafe.
2. I am always honest. Ask away. also if for somereason we aren't clicking I'll be happy to let you know No hard feelings just want everyone to get the most out of their time
3. If anything I say or do makes you feel insecure or unsafe PLEASE let me know so I can shut that shit down and make sure you are ok. your safety and well being always come first.