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So, I've usually seen myself as a total sub. Every now and then I may do something a little switchy, but that's been kind of it as far as being domme is concerned. I think it just comes down to me feeling a bit uncomfortable with me being a domme as a non-op trans woman. Dicks seem to be more often than not associated with domming, and for me I just didn't want people to think of me like that, especially by cis people. But recently, things are kind of different. I'm not exactly sure why, but some burst of confidence and self assurance has unlocked a dominant side of me that I never thought could be as strong as it is right now! I wouldn't exactly say I'm a cruel mistress type of domme. In fact, there are a lot of areas about being a domme that I either can't really see myself doing right now(non-con, pain giving, etc), or may not exactly jump into out of reluctance (dub-con, mommy dom, etc; we can negotiate whatever I may still be reluctant on). But at this rate why not be a bit more assertive with sex?
So right now, I want to chat with others on here and help me encourage my domme side. With other dommes, we can talk about what it's like to be one, and for subs we can play around with our dom/sub dynamic. Roleplaying isn't exactly the first thing on my mind with this post, but if I feel like we click enough and you have a good idea in mind, I will definitely consider. Now, for any cis girl subs interested in reaching out, just keep in mind that, as I implied in the first paragraph, I'm a bit more comfortable with domming other cis people. That's not to say don't try to reach out at all, please do! I just hope you keep that fact in mind. Anyways, if you've read this far and are interested, please mention your favorite fruit somewhere in your first message. Make sure to give a decently thought out first message, and I hope to hear from you!
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