This is a post for women or for guys. I'm super curious to hear about your or your past relationships. For years I've felt competitive tension with other guys over girls, sexual dynamics, ego, etc., and with girls have always wondered how they compare us.

I'm just super curious to hear about you or your past relationships and to discuss what you liked and didn't like about them. I want to hear how you evaluate and compare guys, what you talk about or think about behind our backs, what your friends know about us, and the other kinds of things you won't tell us to our faces.

Why am I asking this? Well, I'm a guy in college. I'm fairly academically inclined, go to a good school, and was have always had high standards on my back and to be pretty competitive about how I'm performing relative to friends, classmates, colleagues, etc. I also am fairly shy and clueless around girls (I have slight ASD) and love statistics. I'm a fairly average, nerdy guy but I am intensely competitive. Like, about everything. I'm asking this question both because I want to understand girls better, but also because I'm insanely competitively and want to know how I stack up against you (if you're a guy), your past boyfriends, and/or your general standards and preferences. I have my points of pride, my insecurities, etc., and I want to discuss that kind of thing.

Some random things I want to hear about, understand, and compare: General personality traits, confidence, sense of humor, intelligence, general approach to dating and relationships, experience, emotionality, etc. I want to know what the dynamics of your relationships were like, what you did, why you broke up, etc.

Quantitatively I'm super interested in knowing about the guy(s): how do I compare attractiveness-wise, how tall were they, how smart were they academically (GPA or SAT score?), what were they like physically (height, shoe size, muscularity, etc.), what were they good at, what were they bad at, what were they like in bed, how big were their dicks, how long did they last, how many past partners had they had, were they early or late developers, things like that? And when I say they, obviously I'm talking to the "they" if you want to tell me about your relationships and "you" if you're telling me about yourself.

I'm also curious about a few other things. I'm white, from the United States, politically conservative, go to a good school, fairly nerdy, relatively inexperienced dating-wise, etc. I'm intrigued by the reality that political dynamics, racial dynamics, nationality, even what school we attend can make us really competitive with one another. If anybody is interested in comparing/contrasting as "rivals" on any of those fronts (i.e. maybe you're liberal and you can't stand conservatives; maybe you're black or Asian; or Canadian; or maybe you want to figure out what colleges we each attend and make that into a rivalry we tie into other dynamics of ourselves). Anyway, I'd love to be your rival or enemy; if you're a guy to compete over girls with you, if you're a girl to hear about your experience with each of these different groups, etc.

I'm also really interested to get into the psychological dynamics of masculinity, ego, competitiveness, sexual competitivness, how we let things like penis size drive our competitiveness, etc.

Anyway, I'll stop rambling. Let me know if any of this interests you from any angle.