I am interested in the idea of a bitchy and resistant girlfriend who is forced to submit to her boyfriend as payback for something stupid she has done. Perhaps she got drunk and messed around with another man and now wants to be forgiven. Or perhaps she mouthed off at work and got fired and so is now unable to pay her share of the rent. In some way, she has come to be a nuisance to her boyfriend, and this has shifted the power relations between them. As payback she now has to put up with his sexual fantasies which she had previously shutdown.

I like to imagine her as annoyed and bitchy, but secretly turned on by the whole state of affairs. Although she could never bring herself to admit it otherwise, she secretly longs to be made to submit to him. The demands he makes on her, though, are things that she finds genuinely upsetting. Perhaps she could leave him, but she does not stop because secretly she finds something thrilling about it. She tries to hide from him that she is aroused, because she is disgusted with herself for being turned on by it, but the more she tries to hide it, the more turned on she gets. Eventually he forces her to reveal it to him. Then there she is, feeling pissed, and degraded, and wet. Of course he uses her as he wishes.

In your opening message, please identify your age and any ideas you have about how exactly you might be used or what fantasies I might have you submit to. I have plenty of ideas of my own if you just want to see what is waiting for you.

You should be ready to get really dirty and willing to discuss your psychological reaction to what is expected of you. As we will discuss things that you will find degrading and shameful, I would like to know what will have to happen for you to find the situation arousing.

I am 40, white, fit, dark blond, handsome. I would prefer it if you would describe your physical appearance in your opening message so that I can visualize you.