hey DPP! so tonight, i'm looking for something a little different. i don't want a short term, one-off getting off buddy. instead, i want to find someone that i can have a long term ~situation with. the problem is, i'm picky, and i'm not everyone's cup of tea.

a bit about myself first! i'm a genderfluid afab person, leaning towards feeling quite masc lately. i'm not out to, well, anyone irl, but i have fantasies of getting on T and really embracing my inner dude. is it gonna happen any time soon? probably not, but i can dream! that said, sometimes i do feel rather feminine and like to embrace that, too. if both don't interest you, i'm probably not the partner for you.

i also don't wanna talk every day, to be honest. i go through phases of being really horny and wanting to play and chat all the time, but i need a break from that sometimes. if you can't be understanding that i have other hobbies and don't always wanna chat, it's probably best you move on to a different post! i'll try to be communicative when i'm not feeling it so i don't just disappear on you, but again, other stuff comes first.

so onto what i'm looking for, yes?

i'm into dominant dudes! cis or trans, doesn't matter to me. other fluid people would be awesome too! i'm a lot into D/s kinds of things, i love calling a guy daddy, into some aspects of being a little (very selective on this, though!), lots of BDSM things, control and desperation, etc etc. hard limits are scat, animals, incest, snuff, excessive gore, etc. if something comes up that makes me uncomfortable/turns me off, i’ll say so and we can move on. i am happy to fill out a kink list, too, particularly if you can do the same for me.

toys are also another huge kink of mine! i have a small collection and would very much like for you to make me use them. a few are 'interactive', too.

please note that i'm not super into exchanging pictures. it's a possibility if i get very comfortable, but right now i'm still exploring a lot about how i want my body to be so i'm not always happy enough with myself to want to share pictures. i also don't share or want to see face pics! ruins some of the mystery for me. i am looking for something very much text-based!

this is a lot, i know! and honestly, it only scratches the surface. but if you're willing to dive in and try to make a friend and play buddy, i promise to make it worth your time! it's getting late here and i work in the morning, so you probably won't be getting responses from me tonight. however, if you can send me an in-depth, detailed message about yourself and what you're looking for, i will certainly read it tomorrow and respond if you pique my interest! i'm also happy to answer any questions you may have.

thanks DPP, hoping to see those envelopes soon! a side note, i do prefer we start in regular mail. we can switch to chat or other methods at some point if we get on well.

i am not looking for a roleplay! if your message me with any variation of 'what's up/how're you' or something else with very little detail, you will be ignored.