This is a weird one.

I've met some great people via dpp, and I've learned a lot. A post I made 2-3 months ago asking for submissive ladies to help me understand why they're into what they're into, really opened my eyes, made me understand a few things more about my previous relationship, and also helped me just learn more about sex in general. It was a game changer for me.

But now I'm looking for something richer, something more rewarding.

I'm at a bit of a crossroads in my life, and I want to talk with someone more mature, someone wiser, who's been through life and is comfortable having the kinds of conversations I want to have.

Don't get me wrong, if we click, it'll be fantastic if you're looking for a sexy chat partner as well. Whether your kinks are vanilla, or really fucked up, I'm game. I enjoy roleplaying a slow blowjob or 69, all the way to choking you, spanking you and giving you the facefucking you deserve.

But I'm also looking for someone who doesn't mind embracing the big questions. Who both of us can help provide the perspective we lack from each other.

For instance right now, it's been 6 months since my breakup, and today I realised I'm finally internally ready to meet other girls. No longer is my brain going "wow I need to meet girls" but now at "I wonder what she's like?"

But...I'm thinking - will I regret looking for connection / a long term partner at the expense of enjoying being single? Or should I just say "hey for this 3-6 months just have fun and not look for something long term?"

Yeah I told you this is weird one, but I'm looking for a weird lady, a mature lady, a wide lady and I hope it's you.

About me - I'm mixed race, 5'6, got an afro, medium build, a deep rich voice. By profession I'm a writer and also a data visualiser.

Bonus points if you're also in the UK.