Hiii,
So this is a weird one. It's more just a general chat, though it might lead to us turning each other on, but I just want to talk to someone to understand this more.
So....I guess I just want to understand what it's like to be submissive more? To know what it's like to just want to please a guy sexually.
It was something I struggled to understand in my previous relationship. My ex was attracted to me because of how empathetic I was, and how I guess, without blowing my trumpet, kind I was. In some ways I can be a bit effeminate in that way.
But in the bedroom, especially later just as our relationship was ending, she was expressing interesting in being a bit more submissive.
Now here's the thing - I'm terrified of crossing a girl's boundaries, especially in such an intimate setting. My mind just can't square the fact that a girl will genuinely enjoy it when I push her head down on my dick. To me I want it so much, but it's something that can only exist in fantasy land. I just....don't get or understand the desire...though I know I would enjoy it.
So I guess I just want to understand more. I want to talk with someone who enjoys being submissive, who enjoys being used, who enjoys pleasing a guy sexually. I just want more insight.
So that the next time I'm with a girl who wants to go there, I'm not terrified I might break her or hurt her or something.
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