A couple of months ago on here, I had one of the most amazing experiences I could’ve ever asked for. I wanted to share these things that made my experience so amazing in hopes that others can take something positively from it for their own prompts.

A little background first: I have one sexual experience in my life, six or seven years ago now. Despite this, I still naturally have a very high sex drive and erotic writing has always appealed to me, despite having lots of hand pain. It’s just amazing the way words can captivate someone and make a person feel. Living out fantasies and exploring a different world that can be so bright when often the world can be dark, that’s a wonderful thing.

Upon discovering this place, I posted up some of my many prompts and fantasies, trying to work through the pain of carpal tunnel in both of my hands while also living out the fantasies that I cannot explore in real life.

I got to enjoy the occasional prompt here and there, but nothing that really knocked my socks off, and often times I’d get absolutely zero responses. I’d try to respond to others, but nothing worked out. That is until I met this amazing woman, who I will call S for the remainder of this. I responded to one of S’s prompts, and she graciously responded back.

The way she spoke and the length effort of her replies turned me on in a way nobody else had. Our exchange was somewhat short, but meaningful as we both enjoyed it and went our own ways. A couple of months later though, after experiencing very little success again, I just had to message her and say thank you for rising above the rest, something that I would do again a couple of months after that.

This time however, she responded graciously by jumping right into a detailed prompt based on some of my own that she had noticed had no responses. And this, oh my fucking goodness.

Me and her enjoyed this prompt for about two weeks, without saying a word to each other outside of the prompt. We never asked if something was too far, we just did our thing and were so in tune with each other’s kinks. I might’ve been in pain from typing so much, but I had never been that horny in my life. Her words drove me nuts. It was blissful, epic, amazing, all of the above. That orange envelope is intoxicating when it’s from the right person. All I could do was type up a response and hope I was doing as good of a job as she was.

After the prompt, we reminisced and shared as we opened up our secrets to each other about the prompt. It turns out that I actually did an great job despite doubts that I was, and words can’t describe how amazing her responses were. From someone with little sexual experience but a super high sex drive, it was just incredible. Although me and her aren’t RPing at the moment, she is a very special woman and her grace effort is absolutely amazing.

Sorry for the long intro but the struggles are important to hear about to understand the successes. Anyways, I would like to share what made that experience so special and how you can do the same for each other.

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1: Look at their profile & kinklist - This sounds really simple, but it is 100% worth taking five-ten minutes to go to the profile of the person you are RPing with and taking a look at both their stories and their kinklist. With the kinklist, ask yourself what is off limits? What should I not mention in our prompt? What are his/her absolute favorite kinks?

With their profile and prompts, ask yourself what kind of prompts are their favorite? What words do they like to use frequently? For example, do they use the term “cunt” a lot to describe pussy? Do they prefer the term “cock” or “dick”? Does she like talking about being fertile? Does he like talking about impregnation? Consider how to work their preference of language and kinks in the prompt.

Understand please, we are all visual creatures & certain words just hit the brain in a certain way. When you are writing back and forth to each other, using vocabulary and matching the types of behavior that they like in their own prompts will make your own so much better.

2: Match your partner’s effort and appreciate every response - This one is more personal, but if you are interested in making the best experience for both, then this is something you’ll pay attention to. We all prefer to write a certain amount in both our responses and prompts, and it’s important to match that on both sides if you want a meaningful experience. If your partner likes to type a lot and be very detailed, then you should match that.

Responding to a very detailed response with one that is lacking of detail is just a huge sigh for the other person. Just how we prefer certain words over others, we all prefer a certain amount of detail. This is something that you can most likely figure out from reading prompts on their profile, but if not you should get a general sense of their preferences within the first couple responses. Taking these first two steps are crucially important to a good prompt, because they lay a good foundation for whatever you are working with.

3: Take note of the small things you can gather from their previous prompts and their current responses - This is a big one for me. As you get your prompt under way, take a look at the way they write in their replies. How descriptive do they get? Do they like to provide more of a narrative contrast to their responses or do they prefer things shorter and to the point? Take note of the descriptive words they like to use, because this is a direct look into what they are seeing.

As an example, I noticed early on that S was very detailed and also liked to provide a bit of a narrative to give background on the prompt itself. She likes to paint a visual picture in each response and add in not only the sexual parts, but also paint the scene clearly. This is something I noticed early on and while my original responses were a bit lacking, I thought of ways to do the same thing in return. I even incorporated some vocabulary at points that she was using in an effort to show that I am here, and to give off the sense that I really am listening & participating. Over time my responses got longer with much more description in it. I feel that this helped tremendously, because we were able to feed off of each other‘s sexual energy. Speaking of that...

4: Feed off of each other’s sexual energy and always be thinking of ways to make things better - The perfect example of this is the way me and S conducted our prompt. We didn’t discuss things before hand or interrupt our prompt to ask if something was okay, we fed off of the chemistry of lust and sex. If you follow the first three steps, this one will most likely come easier.

Just think about it, sexual energy is unique. The way you feel is so amazing, just imagine the way your partner feels and how you can give that to them. Doing things like constantly checking their kinklist and paying attention to the effort they give in responses is a great way to follow this step. It’s hard to describe due to it being an “in the moment” feeling, but when you are in that moment get as in tune with your partner’s sexual energy as you can. My final tip is...

5: Remember this word - Gratitude - This word is truly key. Gratitude is so important, it can be so tough to make a connection on here. If you have a tough time picturing it, think of a time where you worked very hard on a prompt, only for it not to work out and for your inbox to be left dry. That feeling fucking sucks. If you are playing out a prompt, you are doing a lot better than some of the people on here. Because of that, make sure that your partner feels appreciated.

You can do this by making sure their effort feels matched, tickling all of their favorite kinks, and constantly surprising them. Just make sure that they feel wanted, and do whatever you can to show gratitude.

Another big thing is if you play out something that is truly special to you, give thanks. Make sure they know how much it meant to you, that’s so important. We all need to feel needed, we all have certain itches that need to be scratched. If someone scratches that itch for you, be grateful for it. And who knows? It could turn into something where you truly enjoy each other’s writing style and end up playing out more prompts in the future!

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If you follow all of the steps, I can guarantee you that you will have a memorable experience on here. We all deserve it frankly, and as a final message...

If you have been demotivated by a lack of success, just know that I have been there and it is a tough place. But also know this, there are some wonderful people on here and plenty of amazing experiences to be had. The most important thing you can do in my opinion is just stay consistent with your prompts, and never be afraid to send a message if the opportunity is right. You never know what it could turn into. And maybe give a prompt a chance that isn’t neccesarily in your comfort zone, but not far out of it. If you put the effort forth, you can find someone to share with. If I can have such a successful prompt with my constant hand pain and struggles, so can you.

This was probably much longer than it needed to be, but I wanted to give you as much detail as possible. If you have anything to add or any questions definitely leave them below, I will respond as often as I can given my hand pain. Once again a huge thank you to S for such a wonderful, memorable experience!