You are pretty honest with yourself. Deep down, you want the attention. You want to be the focus, the pretty thing that men stare at, that even women look at twice.

But competition is fierce, you know. There are lots of other women out there wanting those eyeballs too. You see them on Instagram, Reddit, modelling websites, at the shops.

So what's it take to get ahead? Good photos are one help. Exposure is another. So you do some searching and find three or four pretty well known photographers who have a creative touch. You message them all and send your best selfies...and hear from none of them, just automated replies that say "Due to the high number of submissions we are unable to answer every submission we receive."

Hmm. You think it over. You tell yourself to be ambitious. Then you send new messages to those same photographers. This time you attach a new photo - your tongue licking your lips and your gorgeous breasts on full display. You're careful, though, not to show the whole of your face. You entitle your message "Ambitious, FUN to work with".

It's a tough world out there. You get one reply, an invite to a shoot the next Saturday.

Your heart fluttering, but dressed as screamingly sexy as you can, you walk into the studio on the day. A female assistant leads you to the main studio and introduces you to the photographer. Pervert - he's only wearing his underwear - but he's not bad looking and you know he takes amazing photos. "Hey there. So come and let's see how fun you are..."