A lot of posts I see here focus very heavily on the scenario and the kinks. This is definitely important and something that should be agreed upon, but I've found most of that doesn't matter nearly as much as my partner does. Some of my favorite RPs have been with kinks I enjoy, but aren't really my favorite. Similarly, I've had RPs that perfectly matched my favorite kinks at the time, and they were only OK.

Instead of the focus on kinks, I want to focus on what my partner is like. I'm looking for a partner interested in a longterm roleplay. I'm online a fair amount throughout the morning/day (EST), on and off in the evenings, and inconsistently on weekends. Your schedule doesn't need to match mine super closely, but I'd like for it to allow at least a few responses back and forth most days. How long I like replies to be depends a lot on frequency and what's going on in the story. If response are infrequent, then 2-3 paragraphs is a good length, otherwise 0-2 is usually fine. My responses are usually longest in the beginning to help set things up, and short responses are fine when there's a lot of back and forth needed. If we're doing a format with infrequent responses, I'll want each of us to have at least minor control over each other's characters, which I know is a deal breaker for some. For more frequent responses, it doesn't matter.

I generally prefer first person and generally prefer each of us to have only one character, but I'm flexible in both regards. Good grammar and spelling are a must, but some typos and mistakes are still ok, we're human.

Detail and buildup are both good things and I want both involved, but sex/sexuality should still be the focus. I want a sex roleplay with buildup, not a normal roleplay that happens to have sex. For detail, I enjoy both very vulgar, "gross" detail, as well as "fancier", less-offensive detail. I hope that discrepancy makes sense...

Lastly, I want you to be OK with a lengthier discussion for setting up the RP, and preferably to enjoy the setup. I love talking about kinks first, finding out what we have in common, and hammering out some details ahead of time. I want you to have clear preferences for some kinks and details. It's totally OK to not care about certain details or things, but it's not OK to not care about any of them. I've had quite a few partners who insist that whatever I want is fine and they don't care, I might as well write a story on my own at that point.

To see my kinks and limits, check out my profile. The quick summary is that my soft limits are extreme pain (and related), and scat. I like almost everything else.

If you think we'd be a good match, please send me a message introducing yourself, and we can go from there. Hope to hear from you!