Because /r/dirtypenpals is a safe place for people to explore themselves, kinks and extreme fantasies always get a lot of exposure here. But we also love that sweet vanilla goodness, so we’d like to take some time to highlight that type of post and extend a special welcome to people who consider themselves more mild than wild.

Whether you're a veteran or new to the subreddit, please join us in exploring the vanilla side of DPP under the theme of books….

He was a mystery wrapped in leather, dark and dazzling, though there was something about him that was so captivating. Smooth on the surface and rough on the edges, always wearing the same old worn jacket but it fit him so perfectly. He was firm but I curled my fingers around his edges and brought him to my nose to breathe in his thick scent that was like that of no other. I could smell it and instantly know that he was near. With a rush of thoughts and an urgent need to find a cozy place I would sneak away to where he would be mine, for a moment, for the small space of eternity that we had together.

Once alone, I could guide my fingertips to explore over him discovering and feeling each bump and divet, every line and stray scratch, until my fingers had traced every inch of him. With an inhale I pulled him close, sighing with the pleasure of the moment that is ours and ours alone.

He opened for me, letting me in and enfolding around me as I dove beneath his coverings.

He held me and I held him.

He led me and I followed on his path.

He is a mystery and I will learn his truth.

At every turn he seemed to surprise me and I never really knew what to expect, even when I thought I was beginning to see a pattern to his ways. There were times I would think I could predict his next turn but I was never quite right and it only made me smile and eagerly look forward to more, more, more.

My fingers, my smiles, my sighs were his and when I had explored him all and learned his truth, I reached back to the front and started all over again.

Click here to see all of the [Books] theme day posts!

This special theme day we also bring you a return of our Bookclub

Please stop by the Bookclub and join the conversation. There is a special flair eligible for all participants of the Bookclub so if you want to fly your banner for books and proclaim “I like big books and cannot lie” then be sure to stop by and join in.

Vanilla Sunday Q&A

What is vanilla?

> Vanilla is sexy stuff that doesn’t involve kinks, fetishes, or any particularly unusual setup. It's just about partners enjoying each others’ company.

Is this just for roleplay?

> Not at all! We would totally love to see requests to chat about vanilla experiences or a dream vanilla date, as well as posts that are roleplay setups.

Why are we doing this?

> Sex is awesome! Vanilla Sunday is all about highlighting some delicious vanilla offerings and encouraging people to explore them.

How does this work?

> Don't worry, it's easy to do! Just make a post and tag it [Books] so that people know you're looking for the sweet sexy stuff!

Can I post a vanilla [Share]?

> Yes! Shares of vanilla interactions between you and a DPP partner are always welcomed. Be sure to get your partner's clear consent before posting.