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Not all that long ago I came across the idea of ‘findom’. It almost exclusively consists of a woman sexually berating submissive men who, in turn, hand over large percentages of their paycheque in order to feel some kind of rush as they are financially dominated.
Needless to say this is very much not my thing. However, I am interested to chat to any women here who have had fantasies or experiences of such themes, but in reverse. That is to say that you have had fantasies or have experienced some elements of financial domination from a man.
This could be as simple as you always paying for the Uber he takes to your place, buying him gifts that aren’t reciprocated, all the way to simple full-on financial domination and humiliation where you pay for dates. This domination is reinforced when he can easily afford them. You might go as far as to give him money to go on dates with other women, or just outright pay him for his attention sexually or otherwise.
I have some experiences of this that I would be happy to share with you in DMs, but whatever caught your eye about my post and it’s title, I’d love to hear from you!
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