Bimbofication started my interest in body mods but more for the symbolism than sexualization aspect: enduring that pain for a partner or the pursuit of becoming living art, the ownership aspect, being an object to be envied, shown off and maintained. One can absolutely pursue a bimbo aesthetic for their own self-satisfaction, but I like the idea of it as a shared kink as it's an intimate connection, collaborating on your own body with someone else's input, as well directly influencing how you're perceived publicly alone and together.

A step below, clothing control. Always good to start somewhere. Sharing a vision without significant or permanent changes. Slight forfeiture of free will, surrendering choice to someone else and abiding by their decision would arguably take more discipline and strengthen the bond between Dom and sub.

Piercings, tats, etc are far more prominent and permanent. Yes, they can be removed and healed but your body will always remember the influence they had over you. I couldn't think of a better way to display my ownership than my Dom marking me up. There’s a healing process, a lot of trust involved as well and a different perception.

I think it fascinates me so much because it's the total opposite of myself: I'm very straight-laced, single-ear piercings, no tattoos, very much a "good girl" in behavior and appearance. In a sense, I've always been the property of my family or school or work; I adhere to their standards and present myself as they require. Any change or body mod would be a significant break from their hold over me. What better way to get over something by getting under something else? To be under another's thumb, following another's rule is exciting and nerve-wracking.

Raves, that’s just the icing on top. I wouldn't subject myself to piercings or tattoos from someone I haven't known long but I would allow a stranger to take on the role of controlling the outfit I wear to a rave. How do you want me to be perceived? You can get away with more in a festival than you would at work. I've never been before but I already started looking at choker collars; make a statement without saying anying. It's the time and place to let loose and have fun; lets decide together.

I'd love to chat to a guy that’s modded or into raves because you'll already have a deeper understanding and connection to this topic from a personal standpoint. I'd like to discuss what modding or raving means to you, does it affect the type of women you attract and has it even been incorporated in your relationship or dynamic?

I'm starting to fantasize about being owned by a modded partner. Him facilitating my transformation, whether it's through encouragement or using his personal desires to influence the changes I make to my body. Or a partner that's really into raves, maybe they have a desire to dress me up and show me off. Maybe it's a subtle competition, source of pride to have the hottest babe there.

Open the convo with your favorite mod or rave experience. I like angled upper dog bites a lot lately. I've never been to a rave but could be going to my first one very soon and trying to find a fit inspired me to post. Maybe I'll go just to flirt with as many guys as I can, haha.

Kinks: body mods, power play, bratty sub, age gaps, sexy fits.