Looking for someone passionate, educated and articulate for conversation and occasional role playing. Would like to get to know each other first before jumping into role playing. In real life an early 40s man with a decently successful career starting in Canada but has moved my family and I to many interesting places in the world (not military). Married in my 20s, we have a wonderful child who is now in university, just my wife and I at home now. Still very much in love with her, consider her my closest friend as I do believe she sees me as that also. We have fun, travel and spend a lot of time together however I feel while the love is real for both it's become somewhat platonic. I have a great career that she helped make possible by following me around the world and will always love and take care of her. I do however miss the passion and excitement in terms of sensuality and passion. I've no desire to have another woman in real life but crave the mental stimulation of someone with similar, less conventional desires and thought this may be a good outlet. I'm a little more unconventional in my desires, my wife is not and I totally respect that. I've discussed and been open but she tends to the vanilla, I respect that. What I'm looking for is a woman, perhaps in a similar situation or more open minded for chatting, I feel this is a respectful compromise in my wife and our disparity in desires. I'm not a creep, I would if with the right person, disclose the online discussion if it was important to the potential woman for this to be open. I'm an honest husband and respectful.

Age isn't really important but thinking it would work best with a woman with life experience, self confidence and maturity that age brings.

A bit more background in my situation, married in early twenties, very passionately fucked like bunnies in the beginning. Had a child a couple years in, loving family (with normal ups and downs) next 18 years living in different countries. Our child has now go off to university in another country, we have a very fun cordial life but sex is routine to none existent. We still have a good friendship but passion has seriously diminished. We are not as tight physically as we were in our 20s but still attractive people and active and anyway I believe beauty is mostly internal.

So what am I looking for if you've actually read this far. A woman in a similar situation or someone who is more newly married and wants to discuss falling into a friendly but loss of passion, hopefully with a little more of a kinky side. I'm not into anything crazy, but very open. I travel for work, am very open minded and would love to hear what things you may consider as a wife with someone like me as a husband.

Seems more than long enough for now, interested if any woman can identify and would like to talk.