Hey there! One of the things I love most is the idea the idea of a very wholesome free use. Its normally framed as being degrading or one sided, but I love the idea of it being this open, positive thing between two people. If you need to cum? That's no big deal at all - whatever you need, whenever you need it

I'd love to picture a scene of coming home, and seeing some porn on the tv with you sitting - legs spread wide open, busy getting yourself off. And you turn to me, fingers still rubbing away at yourself, and we start chatting about how things have been. How our day has gone, what we've been up to, while you're still right there - fingers deep in yourself, hips gently bucking, as you toy with yourself in a way that you clearly desperately need judging by the wetness all over your fingers

More than that, I'd love to keep chatting all the way through, until you reach that edge of needing to cum - just rubbing yourself so close while you have to stop your train of thought to moan a little, until all of a sudden you start cumming mid sentence. Telling me to hold on for just a few seconds while you finish, watching your pussy pulse all the way through your orgasm, cumming so hard, until we carry on chatting. One of us making an offhand joke, before carrying on again

That openness is amazing, and I love the idea that you could take it even further than that. Need a quick orgasm right on a cock? Come find me - unzip my pants, and slip yourself right down on a nice thick cock where you can finish - and that's as complicated as it ever needs to get. I genuinely love that thought

While I'm always very happy to simply chat about this in the one direction (see: username), I'd love to chat about this in a non degrading fashion in both directions. Me needing to quickly rub myself, sliding into you when you're busy and quickly cumming in you - maybe a quick blowjob here or there. It all sounds incredibly, incredibly hot

So, all of the above is just impossibly hot to me, and I'd absolutely love to chat, and swap ideas about the above, while also getting off to it together. I've got a big set of kinks and I'm pretty open generally, so if some slight element of degradation works for you then hey that sounds absolutely amazing. I have a giant kink tied into all of this of helping people cum, so that's a big part of the reason why I'm here

My ideal partner here is mainly someone nice with a bit of a romantic side who enjoys long walks on the beach and writes anywhere from a few sentences to however much you like depending on how you're feeling. Really I'm here for the good conversation, so if my about me page gives you a good vibe, I'm down for chatting about your favourite kind of tree. This whole gentle casual free enjoyment of orgasms is my biggest kink, so feel free to say hi any time you see this if you're into it <3

Kinks: Normalisation of sex/masturbation, you having a nice time, orgasm control, spanking, thigh humping, mild degradation/praise

Limits: CnC, cheating, people with partners (even if they know), Daddy, violence