I've been on a journey to get to this point. Always knew I had a submissive nature and needed more than a vanilla relationship. Age gaps have been my focus, that power imbalance and the taboo nature of attached partners, and that’s satisfied my itch for a while.

I was inspired by bimbofication, more of the symbolism of enduring that pain for a partner or the pursuit of becoming living art, the ownership aspect, being an object to be envied, shown off and maintained. And this final step of body modification. It's an even more intimate connection and a different public perception.

If you have piercings and tats, anything going against the grain, you already have to make adjustments when you're in public. Only so much is acceptable, depending on the environment, and maybe you kind of exist in a different environment altogether when you meet likeminded and modded people.

I think it fascinates me so much because it's the total opposite of myself: I'm very straight-laced, single-ear piercings, no tattoos, very much a "good girl" in behavior and appearance. I avoid conflict and have been pretty passive in my own life. When I had a tough time, I shaved off my eyebrows and that was such an intoxicating feeling. I thought I'd regret it and I did once the first section of hair fell off but I had to see it through. They've grown back and maybe it suits me better this way but, I'm chasing that feeling, I can't lie.

I'd love to chat to a guy that’s modded: tats, piercings, etc because you'll already have a deeper understanding and connection to this topic from a personal standpoint. I'd like to discuss what modding means to you, does it affect the type of women you attract and has it even been incorporated in your relationship or dynamic? Is it hot to think of your partner giving you access not only inside them but outside as well? Influencing their appearance and owning so much of them, that even if you break up, their body will never forget you? I know it would be reserved for someone that you care deeply about because modifications are typically semi-permanent or permanent.

I'm starting to fantasize about being owned by a modded partner. Him facilitating my transformation, whether it's through encouragement or using his personal desires to influence the changes I make to my body. It wouldn't be anything non-con but a little dub-con wouldn't hurt. Also, I have this idea that someone who pierces or tattoos, would put such care into their work that they'd approach relationships the same way. Nothing extreme like amputation.

Open the convo with your favorite or dream mod, whether it's for yourself or you partner. There’s a few but lately: angled upper dog bites, septum and single eyebrow piercings are my faves for myself. I like stretched ears on guys and tatts, of course. They look so hot, just looking at the nearest piercings made my stomach feel all funny 😩

Kinks: body mods, power play, bratty sub, age gaps