Let's be honest. There are some truths in sex we act like aren't true because of political correctness. Biology though doesn't change. I would like to discuss these quite universal truths (although off course there are always exemptions!) and how people dance around them.

These are: - Men on average have a lot higher libido than most women - Men put more emphasis on orgasms than women. Men have a sort of pressure that they want to release often. Men usually can get to orgasm easily, it's a lot harder for a lot of women. - In most of history sex was always focused on his orgasm. Usually his orgasm is what comes natural if you don't focus on anything during sex and just do it. - Men are supposed to not take forever during sex. It has always been an evolutionary advantage to ejaculate quick rather than slow. - Naturally men are dominant during sex and women are submissive. Men are active and women are passive. - For most men quantity is more important than quality. To do it often enough is more important than to do specific things. There is nothing wrong with being passive during sex as a woman.

I think these truths are generally universal and I think it's somewhat strange that we act like it's different. My name is Dutch/Nederlands and literally translates to old fashioned. Because I think the old ways are more realistic in a way. Would you like to talk about that? Send me a chat request, preferably in Dutch but English is fine too.

About me: I'm a 25 year old woman from the Netherlands. I'm in a relationship of 3,5 years and have been in relationships before. I don't see myself as a misogynist and I don't think women should submit to men, I'm just realistic in what sex is and what it's role is and has been throughout history. I'd like to talk and want you to react to this, not just send a hello or how do you do. It doesn't have to be long, two or three sentences is enough. See you in the chat!