So, I’m a dom-leaning switch, but of all my kinks, my absolute favorite one, the one that really scratches that itch, is ballbusting.

Yes, I like it when a woman hurts my balls.

Now, I have no trouble finding women that are interested in hitting a guy in the nuts. Y’all are pretty quick to take that opportunity.

But where I struggle is that many of these women take things too far, or want to incorporate other kinks that simply don’t do it for me (calling you out, pegging and findom. Just not my cup of tea).

What I would really like to find is a sub-leaning switch who likes being roughed up a bit but isn’t afraid to give it back and be rough with my balls.

Is that so much to ask? I want to give it to you, but I want to take some as well.

This idea works with pretty much any scene idea, including a bunch I have posted on my profile (tho most of those are geared towards me being the sub) but office fling, coach and player, professor and student, etc. All of the fun cliche power dynamic scenes are a blast to include this.

And if you simply want to discuss the kink or talk about how it can get involved, hit me up! I have plenty of stories to tell if anyone cares to hear them, or I can answer any questions about this kink.

So let me know what you think!

My links below:

Receiving: Ballbusting, obviously. CBT, edging, teasing, facesitting, control, slapping, hair pulling. Then more vanilla things like blowjob, etc. The usual.

Giving: Choking, hair pulling, slapping, spanking, manhandling, eating out, face fucking, and more vanilla like what you’d expect.

In general:

Dubcon is a huge turn on. I love power dynamics, role reversals, blackmail, etc. Age gaps can be fun if it’s tied with the power dynamic.

Off limits:

Nothing in my ass. No bathroom play.