I'm Jon, a 40 something man and I`m looking to fool around on the internet.

My thoughts on a scene:

You`re a new neighbor, having just moved in to the house next door a few months ago with your spouse. In those short few months, their libido has disappeared and you`ve gotten very frustrated, to say the least.

And while things in the bedroom fizzle, you`ve been noticing the neighbor spending a lot of time working on projects and the sweat and the salt and pepper hair have gotten your mind wandering more than once.

It`s been weeks before you notice that you haven`t seen my wife`s car in the driveway lately. Your curiosity gets the better of you one day while your other half is working late. You decide to put on something attention grabbing and pop over to say hello.

Some kinks: Rough (Spanking, hair pulling, choking), breast play, dirty talk, facials/cumshots, overtly slutty women, CMNF, CFNM, public risk.

Hard limits: pee/scat, incest, blood, non-con

I also like to chat a bit before diving in, just to flesh things out a bit and get a feel for each other.

I tend to prefer chat to PM (I tend to be relatively short in my responses by some standards here, sometimes as few as one sentence, almost never more than three or four), though I also will happily PM with a potential partner.

And in case that strikes your fancy, but you like options:

You`re an old friend of my wife`s, but you drop on and off each other`s radar a lot. You decide to pop by and surprise her while in town and have no idea she`s moved out. You`ve always thought I looked good in a swimsuit and decide to invite yourself in for a bit to "see how I`m doing."

You`re my daughter`s roommate and I`m in town for work. I stop by for a surprise visit and she`s not home, but you`re very happy to host.

You`re the hot young clerk at a mall or department store with the confidence to let herself into the hot older man`s dressing room to say hello.

I`m camping and you and your partner are staying at another site and get into a pretty rough fight, so you storm off. Walking through the campground, you can`t remember ever being so pissed at him when you almost walk into me as I`m getting some water. Before long, I`ll be asking if you wanted to visit my site.

You`re cosplaying at a convention. You`ve got a bit of a daddy kink and you spot a very nice looking one walking around. You decide to see if you can get him alone for a bit.

So, it`s probably pretty apparent by now that shy is not my type. I like a woman who`s confident. I`m very much more the dom side of things in bed (Or on the floor or in a tent, etc), but I am very turned on by a woman who isn`t afraid of taking what she wants.

If this sounds fun to you, say hi!