I`m Jon, 40 years old and looking to play a scene tonight.

You`ve just had a fight with your husband and are doing what you always do afterward: swiping through your secret Tinder account for validation. You never respond to any messages, it`s just to feel good. Until you swipe on a good looking older man before realizing he`s the guy who just moved in next door.

You match and he messages you before long. Just a simple "hi." Nothing about your husband, so you figure fuck it, what's it going to hurt and message back. It starts off mild and you take the opportunity to vent. Somehow get steamy very quickly and you realize you don't entirely mind. And then he asks if you want to come over...

Some kinks: Rough (Spanking, hair pulling, choking), dirty talk, good girls, facials/cumshots, overtly slutty women), CMNF, CFNM, public risk.

Hard limits: pee/scat, incest, blood

I tend to prefer to chat for at least a few minutes first to get a feel for each other.

I also prefer chat to PM (I tend to be relatively short in my responses by some standards here, sometimes as few as one sentence, almost never more than three or four), though I also will happily PM with a potential partner if the match is right.

And for those of us who love options:

Classic nanny scenario. I come home from a night out with my wife well after the kids are to bed. She's completely drunk and I ask you if you mind waiting a few while I get her to bed. You don't mind lingering around for me to relax a bit before you head home. It will be a nice opportunity to get to know me more intimately.

You`re my daughter`s college roommate and staying with us for a few weeks during break. You've been making the most of the college experience and have taken a special liking to older men. One evening, with my wife and daughter both out of the house, you start to think about how badly you've wanted to try an older man and decide to go see what I'm up to.

You're on a long business trip, only about halfway through and you are feeling the effects of being away from your husband. Mediocre, vanilla sex is better than no sex. Getting back to your hotel very late with a day off tomorrow before flying elsewhere the day after, you go to the hotel bar for a quick drink. You wind up striking up a conversation with a stranger at the bar and before long, he's convinced you to head upstairs with him.

You're working the graveyard shift by yourself at a small diner just off the highway in the middle of nowhere. You don't see a lot of customers this late. I'm driving a few states over and getting tired, so I decide to stop when I notice your diner.

As you can probably guess by now, I don't tend toward the shy type. I appreciate a woman who's not afraid to play flirty or even overtly slutty.

If you're interested, give me a hello!