Disclaimer: Chat/conversation only please. Not looking to role play, sorry!

If you check my post history, you can see I've made a number of posts regarding themes of femininity. For me that's the biggest driver of attraction to another person. Someone who might be considered "high maintenance" by some is exactly my type. I'm the kind of guy who gets turned on by the way my partner does their makeup and is more than willing to foot the bill for them to have their nails and lashes done perfectly for me. I want my partner to kiss me softly while we're cuddling, slide their hand up my thigh, and tell me that they want to talk about getting her lips done. I welcome the day where I have a committed partner who I can explore more intense enhancements that require a bigger investment. I might be the only guy you've met who has money already set aside in a "boob job fund." And yes, I realize that is absolutely insane and likely has a strong tinge of toxic masculinity (or similar) to it.

But one thing is clear about those posts: They attract some absolutely awesome women (both cis and trans), femme guys, and enbys. I'm a liberal dude and as far as I'm concerned trans women are women. I don't particularly care what's between your legs -- though not to say I can't appreciate whatever it is just the same. I just want you to doll up for me and feed an endless, beautiful cycle of you getting done up, putting me under your trance, and getting me to keep supporting your pursuits because of how much it turns me on.

For this post I'd like to get a little deeper. I love talking looks and all that, and I hope that we can, but what I really would like to discuss is how having a partner who is willing to embrace your hyper-feminine needs would be affirming for you. Selfishly there's something really amazing about the idea of helping someone embrace their true self in the face of societal pressures, judgement, or anything of the sort.

I'd like to talk to those who are living out loud and can talk about the reality of living as a hyper feminine person. Are you a "girly girl" who loves getting done up but often feel judged or at least never appreciated? Are you a trans woman who has had to deal with everything that comes from it but would love a partner who embraces that transition and is willing to help you along? Are you a femme guy who loves looking dolled up but struggle with some of the perceptions behind gender and femininity? I'm curious about all of it.

Our chat can be more high level or downright smutty. Either is fine with me. I just ask that you please don't hit me up asking how I'd dress you for the day or how much of a bimbo I want you to be. That's not what I'm looking for. I want a good conversation as well as a flirty, hot exchange.

Hope to hear from you! If you've read this far please include your favorite food in your opening message.