When trying to decide whether or not we are going to have sex with someone, a lot of things go through our mind. Are we attracted to them? Are we feeling that spark? Are we comfortable with them? But, depending on the situation, other kind of questions might come up. Can I get some benefit from it? How will i feel about it tomorrow? Should I do it? Sometimes the decision is a quick, gut one and sometimes you really have to take the time to figure out what the best choice is.

I've asked myself those questions and I had some experiences in that field. Two past experiences to be precise. I'd love to share my stories with you and I would like to hear yours. I'd like to talk with someone who asked herself those questions. Has anyone actually had sex with someone for a favor? Can be a promotion, special treatment, money, a better grade, etc. Doesn't have to be your boss or teacher. What about with a friend's dad, friend's boyfriend?

Maybe some situations, like a promotions, are probably least distressing scenarios than others. The woman enters with a willingness to have sex in the name of furthering her career. The man is just as willing to accept her offer. You could even flip the genders and it would still work. Two consenting adults are each seeking something from one another. Sex is just the currency they use and in the end, they both get what they want.

Or perhaps some think that scenario is a problem. Some may slut shame the woman for essentially whoring herself to get favorable treatment. Never mind the fact that a willingness to use your body to get favorable treatment is not an issue when it doesn’t involve sex, as every professional athlete can attest. They still see this use of sex to get favors as unfair. I'd like to know your opinion and debate with what I think.

Somehow, using sex as currency is still seen as taboo. And maybe that's what you liked the most. The adversity, triumph, uniqueness, danger, risk, thrill, and other psychomotivations of it.

This is the most important paragraph. I'd like a long term thing. I'm in a relationship (who would guess) and I'd like to explore kinks that i can't do with her. So, if we click I'd like to eventually move to another app. If you want the same and want to explore and talk about sex freely without any taboo then hit me up. Add the world "kitty" to your answer if you agree changing apps and have read this paragraph.