This post has been de-listed
It is no longer included in search results and normal feeds (front page, hot posts, subreddit posts, etc). It remains visible only via the author's post history.
This is a long post; divided into three parts.
1) Compatibility (communication style, language, timing, duration, perspective, etc) 2) Scene 3) Things I wish to explore in this scene
Part 1: Compatibility
Roleplay Duration: I do mid-length single-scene roleplays before moving on to longer multi-scene roleplays. These single-scene ones will help us understand each other better, so later we can take an informed decision for doing longer ones. Also, if you are someone who only likes to do single-scene scenarios that's fine too!
Language: I can be gentle and classy. I can be rough and crass too. I can praise, and I can swear. We can discuss more on this and adjust language according to our preferences. The most important thing for me is to do justice to plot and characters. Big on flirtations, teasing and banter in the RP.
For example: Using suggestive language and innunendos. Using euphemisms; slowly increasing the intensity as we go deeper into the scene, and transitioning from being classy to crass. Or I could keep it uniform throughout the scene, depending on our preferences and demand of the plotline and characters.
Perspective: I am good with both first person and third person. What do you prefer?
Communication Style:
Writing a roleplay together is no less than a creative collaboration. Likewise, it takes a lot of patience, time, effort, and incisive communication from both sides. Ergo, for longer scenes(the scene in this post is a mid-length one, not long), I like to dedicate some hours every week for discussions on Discord. The particulars of time can be pinned down according to our individual availabilities upon discussion.
RP partner compatibility is not just about the list of kinks and limits. It is also about the time, patience, and style of communication(both, while discussing, and while playing) that both RP partners have. For example: The basic concept of "show don't tell". Reacting and acting to take the plot forward. Describing what is going inside the character's head. I hope you are someone who understands these things. If you have any doubts, feel free to ask.
I hope you understand that our first roleplay together will not be a super smooth ride. Not everything is going to hit right. It will take us multiple tries and discussions to build a rapport and get to a point where it starts hitting right in harmony. I hope you are patient enough to wait and let our compatibility as RP partners grow. There will be miscommunication and misunderstandings when talking about our desires and wants, but if we communicate with mutual respect, kindness, and empathy there is no reason we can't work around them, and share a few laughs.... and maybe some moans too! 😇
I am pretty big on communication. If you are someone who likes to dig deep into desires & wants, and likes to discuss things elaborately, and meticulouly, we'll be a good fit. For ex: I asked an RP partner, in the past, a lot of questions about scenarios that she fantasised about at some point or the other. Then we wrote a scene that built that kind of environment.
It's not necessary we get into this level of communication. This was just to demonstrate an example of good communication.
I've seen many mentions of people wanting dominant and submissive dynamic. People wanting to explore CNC, and dubious consent scenarios. There is nothing wrong in wanting to explore these dynamics and scenarios.
BUT. I reserve the exploration of the mentioned terms for a later stage. That is - after - we have already done a couple scenes. I dislike jumping into these things right away from our first scene.
To wit: I am only looking for RP partners who are either switches, or those who do NOT put themselves into a box of only being dominant or only being submissive. If you can be a bit of both dominant and submissive, we'll work well. But like I said, exploration of dominance, submission or any other advanced kinks won't happen until we have built a rapport by doing a few scenes, and have come to know what makes the roleplay click for each other.
With all the prefacing out of the way. Let me describe the single-scene scenario. If you don't like this one, but liked what I said about communication, let me know. We can discuss and cook another scenario to act out.
Part 2: Scene
[He is sitting inside a care unit, in a hospital beside his grandma on bed]
Working a twelve hour shift for six days a week is exhausting. Even more exhausting is spending my vacation time -- as little as it may be -- at a hospital worrying and caring for my grandmother.
I haven't touched a ciggie in ages, is what I usually tell her -- my grandmother. She lost her husband to thick tar deposits in his lungs nearly a decade ago. So you can guess as to why I promised her I'd smoke less. I have kept my promise to the boot, and I do smoke less now. Though, it's 2'o clock in the night, and my back is not what it used to be in my teens. I reckon, she'd understand if I lit one now. Not in her care unit, obviously.
[He walks out of his grandma's care unit]
"Excuse me. Sorry to bother you. Would you point me to the smoking area please," I said to the nurse passing by in the corridor outside the unit.
She stopped in her steps, and turned her head to look at me. Her expressions said, "Oh, it's you," but her voice said, "Sorry, the area is closed at the moment. A bit of construction is on the way."
"Super!" I exhaled, dropping my shoulders in momentary frustration.
"You can use the outside stairs, if you'd like," she said after a pause
"Which is where?" I asked
A few moments of feigned inability to understand her directional instructions were followed by her leading me to the stairs outside. Why I pretended to be the fool and not understand her directions? Allow me to explain.
She's sweet. No, I don't have a crush. But my 2'o clock brain was imagining things. You know the usual routine. Me. Her. My hands on her. Her hands on me. Our mouths on each other. And later, her legs on me. A woman in scrubs can make you imagine things, don't you know. Perhaps, imagine is a terrible word, for it enforces the idea of creativity. There was nothing creative about what I was imagining -- nay -- thinking. I have thought about her hands and mouth everyday for the last three days that we have seen each other in the care unit. More accurately, I have seen her while she attended to my grandmother. On more than one ocassion, I've caught her stealing glances while I was working on my laptop slouched in the chair beside the bed.
Her unimpressionable and formal countenance - very capable of respectfully telling anyone to go and multiply with themselves - has left a distinct mark in my memory. Or one could say, vacation in a hospital offered no other mark-worthy moments.
When we reached the stairs, she didn't turn around to leave. I pretended to not notice she hasn't left. Descending the stairway, I sat on the steps near the end of the stairs. I rested my back to the wall beside the stairs, and let out a sigh.
These outside stairs seemed like a good spot to smoke. The breeze was pleasing; the sky was clear; the night was silent. Maybe she comes here to smoke herself during her breaks.
As I reached for my cigarette pack and took out a cigarette, I heard her footsteps descending towards me. She seated herself a few stairs above me, and proceeded to drop her shoulders and stretch out her legs to release the tension from the day's work.
"You smoke by yourself? Alone?" I said with a smile in her direction as I lit my cigarette and took a drag.
"In between breaks. Yeah, I prefer it that way," she replied.
"Sorry for intruding your space," I said, passing her the cigarette
"Well, change is the constant. How's your back?" she said before inhaling the smoke.
"About to crack any day now. And very good of you to notice my discomfort," I said
"Noticing comes with this job," she replied while exhaling smoke out of her mouth. "This will help," she added, pointing to the cigarette as she passed it back.
"It is helping," I smiled "Scrolling through my phone and working on my laptop..... ahhh.... slouched in the seat here all day, does have its downsides," I added.
"Consider scrolling less," she said with a slight chuckle and pausing for a moment before continuing "And walking more"
"I will consider that. Indeed," I replied. A bit confused by her extra stress on the scrolling part.
There was a pause. A comfortable one. For a moment, I payed attention to the tranquility that nightly winds offered while staring into space. Just then she exhaled a breath of relaxation out loud.
"I think she will be good to go home in a few days," she said, breaking the silence and passing me the ciggarette.
"Good to know. My back needs to rest properly," I said
I welcome your suggestions and changes to this scene.
We can discuss what we want to do with the two characters. Do we build this scene for them to flirt and tease each other, and then part ways? Or do we build it up enough for them to go all the way and indulge in physical initmacy. Which brings us to Part 3.
Part 3: Things I wish to explore in this scene
These are merely suggestions, and it is not necessary that these should be explored. You can suggest what more things you want to explore. And you can tell me the items in the below list that you don't want to explore.
1) Flirtations and Teasing: Lots of it. I don't like rushing to the sex part. Let's build up some tension between these two characters. To the point that the characters turn into animals overpowered with passion. Dual meaning naughty innuendos. Slow passion. Foreplay and Edging!
2) Over the clothes action: I like to imagine these characters grinding over each other and sweating with all the heat of passion until the bodies are aching for the touch of bare skin. You know the scenes, when you are just there, but not completely there yet.
3) Soft Bites and leaving marks: I like to be bitten, and bite. I want the characters to leave soft bite marks on each other. Your character leaving nail marks on my character's back will be super hot! But if you are not into this, that is completely fine.
4) Heavy kissing and nipple play: Heavy kissing to the point of spitting into each other's mouth. The spitting part is not necessary, if you are not into it. And teasing by grazing hands around the nipples and massaging the breast. We can vary the intensity as you like.
Limits: Vore, Gore, Scat, Necrophilia, Beastiality
Kinks: Like I said, advanced kinks won't be explored until we have done a couple scenes together, and have built a good dynamic and understanding. But for the sake of completion here is my list: https://imgur.com/xhqvFu4
If you've read this far. Introduce yourself in the DMs, and tell me your thoughts on this post. Or anything else that you want to say. Let's discuss :)
Subreddit
Post Details
- Posted
- 1 month ago
- Reddit URL
- View post on reddit.com
- External URL
- reddit.com/r/dirtypenpal...