According to chatGPT "It is absolutely possible for recently single women to experience significantly better sex with a casual hookup compared to their long-term partner"... which on the surface makes sense, with a hook up its new, exciting, focused more on physical traits so selecting for hotter guys. But if this is true also mean the guy, they end up dating for months, years, or even marrying won't be the best sex they've had which seems so taboo when you think about it. The guy they might be with for years can't excite them, pleasure them, or really just fuck them the same way a guy they had met and fucked the same day.

So why is that? If it was just the 'new' factor, then the best sex still could have been at the start with their long-term partner but still often isn't the case, so what is it? Is it because most women have a guy they'd date and a guy they'd only fuck? What makes them different? Are there just some guys who are so hot and amazing in bed that they could fuck better than most guys but most women won't date them but only fuck them? How much does size play a factor?

I love discussing the biological and those 'primal' desires that seem to somewhat contrast the emotional/love dynamic. Like it seems so wrong (and hot) that a guy a woman barely knows will end up being the best sex of their life for reasons out of their control. The women can't help that she finds him hot, that his cocky attitude turns her on, that his athletic body makes her feel such intense lust, or even that his size makes her feel things she didn't know she could... all of that is out of her control and yet if her future partners ask her about if they're the best sex, biggest she's had... she'll either have to lie or have a really tough conversation. Her partner coming to the realization that a guy she might not even liked had her making sounds and feelings things he never will. It's not like she wants it that way it just can't be helped.

A great example of this is break ups, a girl going through a rough break up and may not be very sexually experienced and may even thought her ex was the best she had in bed. As the saying goes "The best way to get over someone is to get under someone else", so they end up finding the hottest guy they can. She's a bit nervous, maybe even feeling a bit guilty seeing someone right after the break up... but by the end of it she's moaning and screaming for this other guy, he's everything her ex wasn't. Between his looks, body, his size, experience, confidence, and charisma her ex is the last thing on her mind. She's never been so turned on and having the best sex of her life. Being fucked in every position and having mind blowing orgasms. Any chance of her getting backed together with her ex even for sex are gone...

Hi! Looking to chat about how primal sex can be and how it contrasts with the more emotional/long-term relationship. Also hot ideas/fantasies around this, related experiences... anything related to the prompt would be happy to chat about!

Prefer reddit chat but message will work too!