If the following applies to you, I have just what you need. Only if you actually value yourself enough to not give up on yourself.

I know your type. You're submissive. You've tried out every act of submission under the sun, you've been free-use, you've been degraded, dehumanised, consensually abused, turned into a breathing fucktoy to please a man. But do this long enough and you might ask yourself: who am I really doing this for? Do I really enjoy the act of submission for the sake of it? Or do I submit myself to abuse because I feel like deep down it's what I deserve and it reinforces my self-image as inferior? Do I just feel useless unless I can be of use to a man? Do I use their attention and affection as a way to boost my self-esteem?

If you've come to this point and you realize that deep down you deserve better, or rather you want yourself to want something better, I'm your guy.

Out of character:

Hi, I'm Will, M25. I'm looking for a dom-sub dynamic with someone who has experience and a thing for degradation. I want to explore this space with you and explore the distinction between our self-esteem in kinky interactions and how it relates to our self-esteem in real life.

Disclaimer: I'm not a therapist. If you have major self-esteem issues, if you feel like this could harm your self-image, if you have any psychological vulnerability whatsoever, seek professional help instead. This is supposed to be a fun exchange about the psychology of sub-space.

Kinks: Gentle, nurturing domination, degradation/praise, femdom, oral

Limits: scat, minors, gore, diapers

• man can be substituted for any gendered or non-gendered descriptor. This post is open to all genders and sexualities.