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A combination of being slightly shy, averagely attractive and not forward enough meant that I didn't have sex until I was 21 at university. In fact, I had my first kiss, saw first boobs and pretty much everything else on one night with a very patient and understanding friend. It improved my confidence a lot and afterwards was able to enjoy a more 'normal' sex life.
I'm here to ask if you had a similar experience, and to share each others first times and their context? Did you have sex much later than your peers? Why was this and do you regret it in hindsight? Did having sex meet your expectations, was it better or worse than expected? Did it unlock a desire to experience more sex?
Did it change anything else about your character - e.g. improve your confidence or make you think about your body in a different way, dress differently etc... Or perhaps it made you think about masturbation or sex toys in a new light?
I guess I'm particularly interested to hear from women who weren't that bothered or excited by sex, but then found it to be much better than expected, or found it to be something you couldn't do without, once tasted.
So if any of the above rings any bells, or if you have a story to share or you want to explore and unpick my story, please get in touch!
18 experiences only please!
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