You’ve had enough with younger guys. You make plans to meet and half the time they flake out. You want to geek out and talk for an hour about an interest you have or a book, show, or movie you really loved and they just tune you out. You try to tell them about your kinks and fantasies and they get super uptight and uncomfortable. You finally make it to the bedroom and they spend 10 minutes clumsily fumbling to unhook your bra and 10 seconds pumping inside you before they cum prematurely. Then they roll off and tell you how great it was but you didn’t even get close to cumming. Even more frustrating is you know that with a guy who’d take pleasure in turning you on and pleasing you, who’d touch you, explore you, listen to and not get hung up about your fantasies you would absolutely explode with repeated orgasmic pleasure. And for the guy who could do that, you’d gladly do almost anything to please him in return, things the loser lying beside you at the moment can barely let his mind even comprehend.

As you lay there in frustration, your mind turns to some of the older men you’ve known as bosses, professors, or mentors. Although you never had relationships with them, they took a genuine interest in you, listened to you, and made you feel valued. If they brought that same kind of attentiveness and interest to the bedroom, you can only imagine the pleasure you might achieve.

Hey there, so I’m more into conversation where we’re more or less being or real selves than roleplay and also more into chatting than long form correspondence. An ongoing, long lasting chat with someone who shares similar fantasies would be good. As far as kinks, some of my favorites are daddydom, spanking, dirty talk, praise, light degradation/humiliation, light bondage, breast play, butt play, outfit control, impregnation/breeding, orgasm control.

I’m 46M and you should be age 20-35ish. When you respond please let me know your age, general location, and what makes you want to respond.