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[M4F] - 32/M Friendly dom seeking sub to have fun with
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malehornylibrarian3 is a male looking for a female
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Hi there, I'm Karl, a 32/m professional who travels frequently.

I have been a dom to a number of women before IRL, but am in a spot now with work that it's unclear when that will be happening again IRL. I would love to get to know you if you're interested in talking about BDSM interests, and coming up with a fun scene together. Some options could include.

  1. A live-in sub/ TPE scenario that is otherwise realistic. We would be in a LTR, living together. You would be subservient, sexual and otherwise. But we would have realistic affection, intimacy, aftercare, etc.

  2. An auction->training->service period scenario, where you are bought, and I break you down and mold you into the kind of sub I want over time.

  3. A university-set professor/student scenario. Perhaps I'm a professor running some kind of psychological study that involves a lot of forced stimulation or other medically-themed kinks. The other is a research subject doing it for the money, and perhaps does not know quite what they got into at first but learns a lot about themselves and their submissive nature. The idea here is that the research subject becomes progressively more and more enamored with, even addicted to the sessions. The researcher may begin things clinically but begin to take advantage of their subject for their own sexual gratification. Kinks could include, but not be limited to, uniforms, bondage, toys (including remote controls), voyeurism, orgasm control/denial, or cumplay. This topic could begin with an enrollment session where the subject fills out paperwork, asks questions about the study, and is interviewed about their sexual history and proclivities. It could then proceed to an introductory session that might be "reasonably scientific", that the subject enjoys, and perhaps becomes enthusiastic about to the point that the researcher feels emboldened to take things in a less scientific direction. Or perhaps the researcher always keeps things rather clinical, but the sessions become more and more kinky from the perspective of the subject, while the researcher maintains an air of research. Alternatively, from there the subject might become resistant and the situation could devolve into something more coercive and dark.

Of course, before jumping in, I'd love to explore how you interests as well, to see how much overlap there is. A little about me. In every day life, I like hiking, mountain biking, skiing, home beer brewing, as well as cooking. I've gotten really into Japanese cooking over the past few years. On more contemplative days I like landscape photography. Most of this happens on the weekends since I study a lot (urban planning grad school) on the weekdays, but I try to get everything done and keep my weekends open for fun and relaxation.

Kinkwise, I discovered an interest in BDSM in college through sort of an underground kink club, where I learned a lot. I really like general control, and visual indicators of it through control of wardrobe, collars, and the like. I really enjoy putting women in predicament-type bondage, using either rope or leather-type restraints and household furniture. I like this especially in conjunction with toys to play orgasm control/denial/punishment games, with most punishments being spanking, or other mild pain that the woman enjoys on some level. sexually, I have a bit of an oral fixation, both giving and receiving.

Let me know if you want to know anything else!

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