I’ve always enjoyed the idea of losing as a sexual thrill, I don’t know why that’s a thing but it sadly is. I’ve gotten off to women beating me sports, men beating me in silly games, and just overall arrogance of their superiority. I’ll start by saying I’m in a lesbian relationship but I am pansexual so do with that what you will! I have a few ideas for prompts that I’m always interested in and I’m always interested in other peoples prompts that involve something similar!

Forced to do cosplay: one of my absolute biggest kinks is outfit control ESPECIALLY if someone makes me dress up in cosplay! Something about having to dress up for someone in a ridiculous sexualized costume has always really turned me on. Especially if you take me to a con and make me pose with people with people in weird/sexual ways or make me do lewd acts as my character!

Hypno: recently I’ve very much gotten into the idea of being hypnotized and not being in control. Any dynamic would really work with this but especially something where they make me do things I’d “hate” to do really turn me on. Whether that’s dressing scantily, cheating on my partner, or making a fool of myself!

Superheroine Defeat: the idea of a super strong superheroine being defeated is probably my main kink and thing I look up whenever I feel like getting off. Especially when the strong superheroine gets defeated/seduced by the lackeys! One of my favorite fanfics is when I read a Powergirl story about her fighting a really chubby henchmen and losing when he knocks her down and sits on her and realizing she actually enjoys the pressure! The humiliation and shame of getting your ass kicked by someone weaker than you and LOVING it is something I’ve fantasized about since I’ve known how to fantasize. I don’t mind playing a specific character but I prefer to imagine myself getting my ass kicked and humiliated or having a conversation about an established character having their ass kicked and humiliated!

Lesbian seduced by men: As someone who’s mostly been in wlw relationships the last few years the idea of a man somehow seducing me and rubbing it in my face is extremely hot. I have been with men before and still find them attractive (although I couldn’t imagine dating one anymore) so I’d still consider myself pansexual! My biggest scenario when I think about that is a man on the opposite political (I’m very left leaning) or just a disgusting man in general winning me over with his blatant misogyny. Men I generally prefer characters who fit the fat ugly bastard profile! One of my general ideas I think of is him making me kiss his ass/boot Infront of my other lesbian friends and admit how much I actually love dick.

The next one can be alittle dark (involves rape) so please ignore if it throws you off or triggers you

Returning to your rapist: One fantasy I have unfortunately is running into my former rapist. Hes probably in his late 50’s/early 60’s now but In my fantasy we run into each other and I freeze up but he notices and he apologizes and ask to make it up to me. Me being very fearful agrees to him buying me lunch and talking. He profusely apologizes and tells me how he’s changed and how he’s with a woman his own age and how much he loves her and is happy with her. I forgive him and we exchange friend request/phone numbers and everything seems fine.. except everything isn’t fine I start to crave that feeling of helplessness again. The idea of submitting to him again is making me quake inside. I ask him if we could talk and tell him I’ll come to his house since I’m the one asking. I knock on the door and when he opens it he sees me in a skimpy outfit (willing to let you help me decide what outfit it is) on my knees with my head bowed asking to come in. He hesitantly says yes and I crawl inside making sure to sway my fat ass side to side to so he can get a good look at it.

I’m also interested in other prompts if you think we can vibe based off my examples! Interested in hearing from you if you have an interested reply I’ll get back to you as soon as possible!

Kinks: Ryona, Cosplay, Humiliation, wedgies, worshipping someone’s ass/kissing their ass, worshipping someone’s boot/kissing their boot, wedgie, spanking, general subbing, Raceplay, and learning about peoples kinks in general!

Limits: fisting