Hey there! I've been really enjoying the thought of a different kind of free use than what's often talked about - which is making sex so casual, simple, and reliable between two people that its something you barely need to mention at all. Where you can always lean on each other to get what you need - no questions asked

I love the idea that - if someone wanted - they simply wouldn't have to masturbate anymore. The level of freedom between two people when you put that on the table is incredibly hot - imagine seeing something that gets you a little worked up while you're sat at your computer, starting to feel a little throbbing going on between your legs, and thinking how you really need to just touch yourself for a while. Then that thought pops into your head - you literally don't ever have to do it yourself, you've got someone who you can comfortably rely on to give you exactly what you need, whenever you want

So if I'm watching TV, or doing some work, or whatever you want, just go for it. There's no need to even ask, because at the end of the day - sex is a need, and its hot for both of us to be able to fill that need exactly how we want. I've always especially enjoyed a bit of a fantasy of a couple banning each other from masturbating, precisely so they can take care of each other's needs instead - with all the on demand responsibility that that entails

One step further than the idea of simply using each other when you need though, is the idea of taking masturbation off the table entirely - and really committing to giving each other what they need. I mean this strictly in a non denial sense - the idea of being able to be comfortable enough with someone that you know you'll always help them and vice versa? I love it

This is one of the reasons why cockwarming is so incredibly hot to me - you're both already right there, getting so worked up, and just being fully buried in you. There's no way to even hide the fact that you're getting more and more turned on, and you barely have to do anything to be able to get that nice hot release. Its just - very clearly - pretty obvious that you're both going for it as much as you need

My ideal partner here is mainly someone nice with a bit of a romantic side who enjoys long walks on the beach and writes anywhere from a few sentences to however much you like depending on how you're feeling. Really I'm here for the good conversation, so if my about me page gives you a good vibe, I'm down for chatting about your favourite kind of tree. This whole gentle casual free enjoyment of orgasms is my biggest kink, so feel free to say hi any time you see this if you're into it <3

Kinks: Dirty talk, you having a nice time (its a kink I promise), thigh humping, giving instructions, orgasm control, spanking, praise

Limits: CNC, cheating, choking, people with partners (even if they know), Daddy, violence