I know what other men are like, you know what men are like. They are 90% of the time after one thing and one thing alone, their own pleasure. Which I can understand but not agree with. To me, sex isn’t about my own pleasure. It's not about how hard I can cum, though that is nice obliviously. Sex is about giving my partner what they want. Need. What they crave. I play into my partners' kinks more than I do my own. That's why it's great when I match kinks with people but I normally love playing with my partner's kinks either way. Take for example Hypnosis. Not a kink of mine however, it is something I enjoy doing because my partners that enjoy that sort of thing love it. So I will play into those kinks for them.

I’m what many would call a pleasure dom. Even though I play into my partner's kinks I want to maintain control. I will be in charge. That is one thing I won’t give up on. My biggest kink is having my partner under my control and first squirming for me and then writhing in pleasure for me. I typically enjoy a build up. Ramping up the pleasure. Making them cum again and again until their body wears out and their mind is long gone. I want to be the best my partner has ever been with.

One thing I love to do is that as I talk to someone I start to understand their needs. Their desires. What they crave. It lets me learn the buttons I can push to make them crazy. All it takes is a little back and forth. A few naughty questions like if you prefer praise or degradation and some favorite kinks of yours and I’m pretty sure I know just what to say to make you melt.

So let me ask again. Have you ever been with a man who focuses on your pleasure? If not then come say hello and let me give you the time of your life. If yes, then let me try all the same!