I’m 37 ... soon to be 38 (scary!) ... and divorced and happily single and having plenty of satisfying sex. One thing I do miss is the hotwife/vixen dynamic I had with my ex. We did the open marriage thing. We did the swinger thing. We did threesomes of different flavors. But the thing that we both enjoyed very much was him setting me up with other men. Sometimes he'd be there to watch. Sometimes he'd have to settle for a recap later. The cuck dynamic was not part of it for us. He simply loved watching me give and receive pleasure to total strangers. Or knowing that I was giving and receiving.

While I am not ready for a real deal relationship yet, which means no real deal hotwife/vixen arrangement for me anytime soon, I do wonder if a virtual, mostly anonymous, long distance kinda thing could work with the right man? Could you entertain the idea of making the decisions for a single woman you don't even know?

What would you do with a sexually adventurous, slightly submissive woman so crazy as to trust you to set her up with other men? I want to explore this possibility with someone who understands; a man who would enjoy pulling the strings from afar, knowing that I won't say no to him and would have to put my full trust in him. What would you do with a high libido woman that mixes work and sex? What would you do with my fixation on the free use dynamic? And how would you sift through the thousands of male suitors that would need your permission to have me? What criteria would you use to gauge their worthiness? Would you ensure I am satisfied or would you push me way beyond that and to the point of having to use our safe word? How much risk are you willing to throw at me? What challenges would you setup for me? How would you keep score? How often will I have to service new men?

I’m not into anything weird or gross. No super bdsm stuff. I’m actually kind of vanilla. Just your friendly neighborhood next door hoe inspired by a fun convo I had with a fellow redditor recently.