So I can't help but feel like I'm approaching a sensitive subject here, so please take a read and know I'm coming at this from the place of a curious dude and not a fetishist.

If you check my post history, you can see I've made a number of posts regarding themes of femininity. For me that's the biggest driver of attraction to another person. Someone who might be considered "high maintenance" by some is exactly my type. I'm the kind of guy who gets turned on by the way my partner does their makeup and is more than willing to foot the bill for them to have their nails and lashes done perfectly for me. I want my partner to kiss me softly while we're cuddling, slide her hand up my thigh, and tell me that she wants to talk about getting her lips done. I welcome the day where I have a committed partner who I can explore more intense enhancements that require a bigger investment. I might be the only guy you've met who has money already set aside in a "boob job fund." And yes, I realize that is absolutely insane and likely has a strong tinge of toxic masculinity (or similar) to it.

But one thing is clear about those posts: They attract some absolutely awesome transwomen. I'm a liberal guy and as far as I'm concerned trans women are women. I don't particularly care what's between your legs. I just want you to doll up for me and feed an endless, beautiful cycle of you getting done up, putting me under your trance, and getting me to keep supporting your pursuits because of how much it turns me on.

For this post I'd like to get a little deeper. I love talking looks and all that, and I hope that we can, but what I really would like to discuss is how having a partner who is willing to embrace your hyper-feminine needs would be affirming for you.

I'd love to talk to women who are down the road of their transition and can discuss their experiences in their pursuit of that hyper-feminine aesthetic and how their partner -- or lack thereof -- impacted that transition. I inevitably get a lot of sissies and closeted folks who want to nut and run and I'm usually perfectly okay with that, but I'd like to actually have a real conversation about this. If it gets smutty at some point that's totally cool, but I don't want to start there. So please don't hit me up asking how I'd dress you for the day or how much of a bimbo I want you to be. That's not what I'm looking for.

Hope to hear from you! If you've read this far please include your favorite food in your opening message.