This probably won't be for most of the dominant ladies here, but if you like to take control of a shy nerd, pamper him and make him melt in your hands by using kindness and affection I'm what you're looking for.

The few IRL friends that I have dragged me out for my 21st birthday. Knowing that I'd absolutely despise being in a usual pub, club, bar or the like, they choose a goth diner and pub. The music was metal, the interior clad in black leather with pictures of visiting metal bands on the walls, all the servers were dressed like they just came back from a death metal festival. Of course I still felt out of place with so many people around, but it was endurable. I was wearing just some jeans and a bullet for my valentine t-shirt. My bald head freshly shaven and my beard trimmed, surrounded by my talkative friends that already know I won't speak much, unless it is about a topic I'm passionate about, but after all.. I did feel good to be out of the house for once.

That is until you approached our table. My cheeks turn red and I get as shy as I've never been before. You're a combination of cute, sexy, intimidating, reassuring and hot. I'm instantly smitten and can barely look into your eyes. One of my friends notices this behavior from me towards you and decides that he'll take over and approaches you, telling you how I'm too shy to approach you myself and hands you a slip of paper with my number on it...

hey there, I'm feeling a bit submissive today and would like to try it out. I'm looking for someone to play a soft and gentle goth girl to gently and lovingly dominate me. For me, that means no pain, no abuse (neither physically nor mentally), no chastity. I don't like pegging and anal in general and I don't want sounding. What I'm looking for is a softly dominating woman between 18 and 40 to care for me, give me tasks, cuddle me and drain my balls whenever and wherever she feels like it. My body is yours, but I'm fragile so please take good care of it.