When my Dad invited me to move back in with him, it seemed like a generous and totally logical offer. We were both living alone, managing expenses on our own, and here was an opportunity for us to save a little money. Plus, we always got along, and I knew living together would alleviate some of my Dad’s more protective urges. What I didn’t expect was that the power dynamic would change so dramatically once we were back under the same roof again.

Even despite me being in my mid-thirties with a successful high-level career, Dad was back in Dad mode from day one. First it was the overly prescriptive (and always unsolicited) advice. Then it was the meddling in my dating life. Eventually he instituted a curfew. Meanwhile, my responsibilities around the house got more and more onerous: all domestic chores are my responsibility while Dad relaxes in total leisure. Sometimes he has me rub his feet. Once he had me stay on all fours in front of the couch so he could rest his feet on my back; the ottoman wasn’t the right height, he said. Now he’s talking about me covering a larger share of the expenses. In his words, doesn’t he deserve being treated after all these years? I’ve always had deeply submissive, subservient urges that verged on the need to be degraded and humiliated, but I never expected my Dad to be so in sync with them.

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I’d love to chat about (rather than formally role play) what it would be like to become a servant for my father (or a father figure), someone who expects me to put aside all my own priorities in order to serve and worship him completely and exclusively. His whims come before my needs. I’m even more interested in exploring what this would look like in a totally non-sexual context: me working around the clock to serve him, cooking, cleaning, doing laundry, rubbing his feet, being at his beck and call 24/7, even serving as his paypig, just to drive the humiliation home. It would mean my Dad finally sees me for what i really am… and treats me accordingly.

Kinks include: verbal, body worship (especially feet), hierarchy, unfairness and double standards, domestic chores, man smells, humiliation, degradation, non-sexual servitude.